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Re: Saw her mom- FREAKING OUT
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Re: Saw her mom- FREAKING OUT
YesIWILL wrote:
I guess, do I just ignore the blatant signs of her not being interested in me from before? Like the whole flower thing? And just focus on what I want to happen, as if she never lost interest in me? - I guess that's my question.
Yes, I would imagine so. You may be completely overthinking all these "blatant signs" - try just forgetting them. And yes to the last sentence.
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Months ago I sometimes replied to RR33's threads even though I knew he would most likely not take any of this stuff to heart and make another thread continuing the cycle...but I did it because maybe someone else reading it might find it helpful since his threads get so much attention.
I want to say I really appreciate it. It was really kind of you (and still is) 
I wanted to emphasize that you manifest replies to your concerns beautifully. I'm sure that I'm not the only one that always "feels" inclined to give you thoughtful and most helpful feedback. You leave everyone else in the dust.
If you could move whatever it is you think and feel about what would happen when you post to your relationship, things could change. Imagine her "feeling" inclined to reach out to you.
..just a thought.
I really do appreciate everything. - And I leave people in the dust? I'm sorry to those people. If I do, I don't intend to do so. I try so hard to reply to everyone and make them feel as though their replies are worthwhile and noted.
I can definitely imagine that thank you!! I didn't really understand the first sentence (I'm a little drunk and tired - not in a bad way. Just enjoying some hard cider while playing video games. It's been a great day!) I'm sorry! But than kyou so much for the advice!
Thank you so much! I'll definitely read through this
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Why would you ever put another person on YOUR pedestal? I just don't longer get it. Why would you chase another person? It doesn't feel good, right? You try to make it feel good, but it doesn't, because you can't keep your focus in place. You know how this stuff works, you have heard it a hundred times, but you aren't able to apply it. Nothing wrong with that. It's much easier to create something new than to fix something, especially with an untrained focus muscle. But you are around for over a year now, right? I'm sure that you would feel much better, if you had let go of her a long time ago. The whole purpose of getting her back is that you feel better, right? You could feel better for months now, if you had let go of the thought that you need her to feel better. It's a little bit like gambling. You play and play and play, because you think that you could get more out of it and in the end, all your money is gone and you could have spent it on something beautiful. Your currency here is time and happiness.
The whole point of LoA is that you have to feel it first. You still make your happiness dependent on the conditions and that just never works. What's wrong with working on your happiness now? Not in order to attract her, but in order to be happy.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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Re: Saw her mom- FREAKING OUT
Months ago I sometimes replied to RR33's threads even though I knew he would most likely not take any of this stuff to heart and make another thread continuing the cycle...but I did it because maybe someone else reading it might find it helpful since his threads get so much attention.
I want to say I really appreciate it. It was really kind of you (and still is)
I wanted to emphasize that you manifest replies to your concerns beautifully. I'm sure that I'm not the only one that always "feels" inclined to give you thoughtful and most helpful feedback. You leave everyone else in the dust.
If you could move whatever it is you think and feel about what would happen when you post to your relationship, things could change. Imagine her "feeling" inclined to reach out to you.
..just a thought.I really do appreciate everything. - And I leave people in the dust? I'm sorry to those people. If I do, I don't intend to do so. I try so hard to reply to everyone and make them feel as though their replies are worthwhile and noted.
I can definitely imagine that thank you!! I didn't really understand the first sentence (I'm a little drunk and tired - not in a bad way. Just enjoying some hard cider while playing video games. It's been a great day!) I'm sorry! But than kyou so much for the advice!
Thank you so much! I'll definitely read through this
I simply meant that you receive more replies and help than anyone else.
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Re: Saw her mom- FREAKING OUT
Just to add to this. I've got a house and garden I really love, fantastic friends, a new job with brilliant colleagues. I'm preparing towards my doctorate. My animals are fabulous and I love my books, dramas and historical stuff I do. Everything is good.
I'm not in the relationship I want to be in. I've never in my life been in the right relationship (I've had three long term ones all engagements and all of which turned out not to be right for me) even though sometimes at the beginning I thought I was.
My point being you can have a really fab life while you watch for the right relationship to manifest.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Thank you for this.
I just see one superb line "you can attract anything then why not your ex?" Haha
!o! 😊😀
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So as we know her sister is still on my snapchat. Well, she took a picture of these flowers (in the black square small container) - like the cheapo ones you'd find where I work (like they costs 3 dollars). - And that picture may have been for me - it may have been the flowers that her mom bought from my place of work. Pretty sure that's one of the cheapo flowers we sell... The weird thing is, there's no reason to snapchat that. It was a pretty stupid, meaningless and just... ugly snap. She never posts stuff like that...
I wonder if the sister is back home (she lives about an hour away from the rest of the family and comes home off and on), and knew that the mother got that from my place of work, and took a picture of it as her story to grab my attention? Just a thought. I'll assume so.
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Re: Saw her mom- FREAKING OUT
So as we know her sister is still on my snapchat. Well, she took a picture of these flowers (in the black square small container) - like the cheapo ones you'd find where I work (like they costs 3 dollars). - And that picture may have been for me - it may have been the flowers that her mom bought from my place of work. Pretty sure that's one of the cheapo flowers we sell... The weird thing is, there's no reason to snapchat that. It was a pretty stupid, meaningless and just... ugly snap. She never posts stuff like that...
I wonder if the sister is back home (she lives about an hour away from the rest of the family and comes home off and on), and knew that the mother got that from my place of work, and took a picture of it as her story to grab my attention? Just a thought. I'll assume so.
Just think of it this way, to get the reality you want you need to feel as if you live in that reality. Even if this sounds absolutely daft and possibly insane you need to believe all is well.
Your girl is madly in love with you, her sister looks up to you, her mother adores you and thinks you're the perfect man for her daughter. If doubts come to mind just take a deep breath and remind yourself that only good things can happen to you.
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Thank you for this.
I just see one superb line "you can attract anything then why not your ex?" Haha
!o! 😊😀
You know that's not the point of the article, right?
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