So I am working on myself which in return feels as though I'm giving up on my desire to reunite with my ex.. Am I doing it right?  I feel as though letting go of her so that I can work on myself knowing God will bring her back. I notice that when I think of my ex I become sad so I told myself to stop and work on myself before I try any vibrations to reunite with my ex..  Let the universe know what I want, let it go, let her go, let go of the outcome, work on myself, then practice the loa when my mind and emotions are ready right?