Cherished wrote:

You know what? I was having trouble doing this at first too. I was a chronic pain in the "butt" (see what I did there?! Lol. I mean, I had this urge to say something great and then cancel it all out with BUT........ So one day I decided to play hardball. And I decided every time I would write something, and wanted to say BUT... I would instead finish by saying "AND IM A MAGNIFICENT CREATOR, SO IT IS EXACTLY AS I SAY!"

So let's practice that with one of your statements.. "I will stay in it longer and stop looking at the current reality.. (here it comes.....)...BUT how do I practice and have it long enough?"

New version: "I will stay in it longer and stop looking at the current reality.. AND IM A MAGNIFICENT CREATOR, SO IT IS EXACTLY AS I SAY!"

Doesn't that feel awesome?! Debbie's right, forget the buts, there ARE NONE unless you create them!

This is wonderful cherished! Thankyou!!!
How do we fully forget about the past?????

You forget the past by NOT TALKING ABOUT IT ANYMORE! By realising that the past cannot help you. It cannot bring him back. It cannot do anything for you except lower your vibration. So every time you try to think about it, STOP and say "I AM A NAGNIFICENT CREATOR, SO IT IS EXACTLY AS I SAY!" Over and over and over until the past no longer has its grip on you.

You know what? I was having trouble doing this at first too. I was a chronic pain in the "butt" (see what I did there?! Lol. I mean, I had this urge to say something great and then cancel it all out with BUT........ So one day I decided to play hardball. And I decided every time I would write something, and wanted to say BUT... I would instead finish by saying "AND IM A MAGNIFICENT CREATOR, SO IT IS EXACTLY AS I SAY!"

So let's practice that with one of your statements.. "I will stay in it longer and stop looking at the current reality.. (here it comes.....)...BUT how do I practice and have it long enough?"

New version: "I will stay in it longer and stop looking at the current reality.. AND IM A MAGNIFICENT CREATOR, SO IT IS EXACTLY AS I SAY!"

Doesn't that feel awesome?! Debbie's right, forget the buts, there ARE NONE unless you create them!

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Debbie wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

I love the ending too and I keep visualise the ending! But that feeling feel so untrue, maybe it's because I see too many of obstacles. I can't help but think of them both. I'm scared. I always trying to turn things around. But there's too much of distraction of the obstacles and the impossibles...yesterday when I think of them, I feel okay... and maybe I'm accepting it...But right now, it's overwhelming.

Well it's perfectly understandable that you are feeling this way and really, I'm sure that all of us here know exactly what you are going through. However part of the problem as I see it, is that you are putting up a whole lot of resistance to getting what you really want. That resistance is like a big wall that stands between your guy and you right now. So somehow that wall needs to be dissolved so that you can begin to manifest in the way that you want to.
One thing I notice is that you are saying the word "but" a lot: 
 "I keep visualise the ending! BUT that feeling feel so untrue, maybe it's because I see too many of obstacles."
 "I always trying to turn things around. BUT there's too much of distraction of the obstacles and the impossibles"
"yesterday when I think of them, I feel okay... and I'm accepting it...BUT now it's overwhelming"
So it's like you want to do this, but you've got that word "but" standing in your way. That word is your wall of resistance. What if you were to watch yourself and make a point of getting rid of the "buts"?
Imagine that there are no obstacles,and no "buts". How would things be if everything would be just as you want it to be with him? How would he treat you? What would he say to you?
Try to maybe write down a secne about being with him exactly as you want it to be. But don't include the word "but" in your thoughts as you write it. Then look at what you have written every day and feel good about it. There is no such thing as "but"! In loa we really can have everything, without exception.

 
Do you mean by scripting? I think I should do it asap. I was sick this morning before exam, and I hope I can tell him like the past and he's there to comfort me. It makes me think of that last few days when we're together I told him I got a car accident, he just say "you act like so pitiful." Arh, it brings me down again.

Yes that's right! Scripting! Get yourself into a good frame of mind first. Maybe put on an uplifting song that you hav always loved and makes you happy first, so that your vibration is high and then sit down and write it out EXACTLY as you want. Have no consideration for how it will happen, because that's the job of the Universe to arrange for you. Just write it down they way a little kid might do when they are having a wonderful daydream and they are making everything the way they want it to be and feeling great about it. Feel free and easy about it and have fun with it. And remember, there are no limits! 
 

Last edited by Debbie (10/27/2015 7:42 am)

Debbie wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Debbie wrote:

Well it's perfectly understandable that you are feeling this way and really, I'm sure that all of us here know exactly what you are going through. However part of the problem as I see it, is that you are putting up a whole lot of resistance to getting what you really want. That resistance is like a big wall that stands between your guy and you right now. So somehow that wall needs to be dissolved so that you can begin to manifest in the way that you want to.
One thing I notice is that you are saying the word "but" a lot: 
 "I keep visualise the ending! BUT that feeling feel so untrue, maybe it's because I see too many of obstacles."
 "I always trying to turn things around. BUT there's too much of distraction of the obstacles and the impossibles"
"yesterday when I think of them, I feel okay... and I'm accepting it...BUT now it's overwhelming"
So it's like you want to do this, but you've got that word "but" standing in your way. That word is your wall of resistance. What if you were to watch yourself and make a point of getting rid of the "buts"?
Imagine that there are no obstacles,and no "buts". How would things be if everything would be just as you want it to be with him? How would he treat you? What would he say to you?
Try to maybe write down a secne about being with him exactly as you want it to be. But don't include the word "but" in your thoughts as you write it. Then look at what you have written every day and feel good about it. There is no such thing as "but"! In loa we really can have everything, without exception.

 
Do you mean by scripting? I think I should do it asap. I was sick this morning before exam, and I hope I can tell him like the past and he's there to comfort me. It makes me think of that last few days when we're together I told him I got a car accident, he just say "you act like so pitiful." Arh, it brings me down again.

Yes that's right! Scripting! Get yourself into a good frame of mind first. Maybe put on an uplifting song that you hav always loved and makes you happy first, so that your vibration is high and then sit down and write it out EXACTLY as you want. Have no consideration for how it will happen, because that's the job of the Universe to arrange for you. Just write it down they way a little kid might do when they are having a wonderful daydream and they are making everything the way they want it to be and feeling great about it. Feel free and easy about it and have fun with it. And remember, there are no limits! 
 

 
I think I should do it when I'm in a higher vibration hmm. I was searching pictures on my phone to send to my friends, but I suddenly saw the picture that I screenshot a few months ago. How things were great those times. I cried for a little while then I blame myself for begging him or run to his house and find him. I regret. And blamed myself that I have to restart all the progress again.  (errr)