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A big hello to everyone. This is my first post on this forum but I have been visiting and reading on a daily basis for the past couple of months. It's so nice to find like minded people that understand the LOA! This might be a little long but I hope this post will give hope to those looking for it as well as bring myself back to a place of alignment again. About two months ago when I found this forum, I told myself that once what I wanted manifested I would write a post about it. So here it is.. My guy and I met about 6 months ago and we were inseparable for the first few months. The first 3 months of our relationship felt more like 3 years (in a good way!) We talked and talked for hours every night and saw each other every chance we got. We had a lot of differences and soon after I let myself get insecure and out of alignment and I lost him. EVERY SINGLE THING that I thought about in terms of my insecurities manifested. Even my fears about what he would say to me came into being.. word for word. It's amazing to be able to trace all this back to my thoughts. Thoughts really do become things. So after a few months of good times and bad times, we broke up and very soon, I found out that he was dating someone else. IT KILLED ME. I was devastated. He basically said "move on, I'm dating someone else". There was a lot of crying and yelling and screaming. Then I really started to think about it and I realized that this very scenario was my biggest fear and what I had been playing back in my head on a daily basis. Again, my thoughts manifested into my physical reality. As much as all this hurt, I was renewed in my hope because I realized that it was me creating this in my life and if I could create these crappy things, I should be able to create what I want. So I decided one day that I'm going to stop stalking his instagram and whatsapp etc to see when he's been online last because after all, if he was my boyfriend I wouldn't be doing those things. It hurt me to my core that he was seeing someone else but I tried to put that out of my mind completely. So once I decided to stop, I asked myself what do I want? and I pictured him texting me again and calling me again etc. I pictured in my mind his name popping up on my phone. I kid you not, within a day or two of stopping the social media stalking and visualizing his name on my phone, that very thing manifested for me. He started texting me again and calling me but as friends. Of course I wanted more and my fears started again and I lost him again. So one day I decided I wanted a perfect weekend with him. I visualized this date in such detail. Where we would go, what we would do, the pictures we would take etc. I love walking and exploring the city so after work, I would walk the exact path that I pictured in my mind and imagine that I would be walking with him and when I would pass a restaurant, I would imagine that this is the restaurant that we would eat in. I kept doing this..I didn't know how this would come into being knowing that someone else was in the picture but I let the universe handle that. I said I don't know how this weekend/date will happen but somehow it will. So after a couple of weeks of doing this visualization, against all odds, he texted and asked if he could come over. I was so shocked and I said yes. He came over and we had the perfect weekend. With everything happening EXACTLY how I had imagined. As I was experiencing the weekend, I was in awe...I couldn't believe this was happening. I mean every single thing I had imagined was happening in exact detail. It was crazy!! After he left, I started to have the same fears and insecurities and the fights started almost immediately. We got into arguments and he kept saying he only wanted to be friends. UGH!! again, back to square one I thought. So now, the most recent development is that my thoughts again created my reality and we're back to not talking. However, I know that he will reach out to me as soon as I mentally allow it. I went back to social media stalking and I told myself this morning that I gotta stop that. So here I am, sharing my success story with manifesting this incredible weekend I had with my guy. Even though right now we are not where I want us to be, I know that we can get there. I need to get into that same head space again and if you have any advice for me, I'm totally open!! I really care about my guy and I want us to make this work. I know we can and we will as soon as I stop with the insecurities. It's so interesting that whatever you can imagine will come into reality and while that includes all the good, it also includes the icky stuff unfortunately and my weekend a couple weeks ago is a good example of the incredible ways things that you want can manifest and how not staying in alignment can throw off things again.. He will come back to me - I know this but right now, i'm in a bit of a funk emotionally and I kind of want to dust myself off a bit and I'm hoping you guys can help me... It's all possible. Sometimes, I forget that I know this
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Hey guys, sorry my post came through as one big paragraph. I tried to edit it but didn't work. Sorry about that!!
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This is a great story! It's also a great reminder that thoughts are things and we create our reality through our thoughts and feelings. Keep us up to date on your situation!
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This brings so much hope thank you with all my heart
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Its as if you were telling my story! I love the supporters around here, such wonderful people! How about this.. We both and all know we have our desires. God and the universe will bring our loves back... I know I will soon be posting my success story here.. She is my souls mate 😀
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Its as if you were telling my story! I love the supporters around here, such wonderful people! How about this.. We both and all know we have our desires. God and the universe will bring our loves back... I know I will soon be posting my success story here.. She is my souls mate 😀
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This is an encouraging story. Keep at it! We can do this!
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This gave me a big smile today, thank you for sharing your story!
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A big hello to everyone. This is my first post on this forum but I have been visiting and reading on a daily basis for the past couple of months. It's so nice to find like minded people that understand the LOA! This might be a little long but I hope this post will give hope to those looking for it as well as bring myself back to a place of alignment again. About two months ago when I found this forum, I told myself that once what I wanted manifested I would write a post about it. So here it is.. My guy and I met about 6 months ago and we were inseparable for the first few months. The first 3 months of our relationship felt more like 3 years (in a good way!) We talked and talked for hours every night and saw each other every chance we got. We had a lot of differences and soon after I let myself get insecure and out of alignment and I lost him. EVERY SINGLE THING that I thought about in terms of my insecurities manifested. Even my fears about what he would say to me came into being.. word for word. It's amazing to be able to trace all this back to my thoughts. Thoughts really do become things. So after a few months of good times and bad times, we broke up and very soon, I found out that he was dating someone else. IT KILLED ME. I was devastated. He basically said "move on, I'm dating someone else". There was a lot of crying and yelling and screaming. Then I really started to think about it and I realized that this very scenario was my biggest fear and what I had been playing back in my head on a daily basis. Again, my thoughts manifested into my physical reality. As much as all this hurt, I was renewed in my hope because I realized that it was me creating this in my life and if I could create these crappy things, I should be able to create what I want. So I decided one day that I'm going to stop stalking his instagram and whatsapp etc to see when he's been online last because after all, if he was my boyfriend I wouldn't be doing those things. It hurt me to my core that he was seeing someone else but I tried to put that out of my mind completely. So once I decided to stop, I asked myself what do I want? and I pictured him texting me again and calling me again etc. I pictured in my mind his name popping up on my phone. I kid you not, within a day or two of stopping the social media stalking and visualizing his name on my phone, that very thing manifested for me. He started texting me again and calling me but as friends. Of course I wanted more and my fears started again and I lost him again. So one day I decided I wanted a perfect weekend with him. I visualized this date in such detail. Where we would go, what we would do, the pictures we would take etc. I love walking and exploring the city so after work, I would walk the exact path that I pictured in my mind and imagine that I would be walking with him and when I would pass a restaurant, I would imagine that this is the restaurant that we would eat in. I kept doing this..I didn't know how this would come into being knowing that someone else was in the picture but I let the universe handle that. I said I don't know how this weekend/date will happen but somehow it will. So after a couple of weeks of doing this visualization, against all odds, he texted and asked if he could come over. I was so shocked and I said yes. He came over and we had the perfect weekend. With everything happening EXACTLY how I had imagined. As I was experiencing the weekend, I was in awe...I couldn't believe this was happening. I mean every single thing I had imagined was happening in exact detail. It was crazy!! After he left, I started to have the same fears and insecurities and the fights started almost immediately. We got into arguments and he kept saying he only wanted to be friends. UGH!! again, back to square one I thought. So now, the most recent development is that my thoughts again created my reality and we're back to not talking. However, I know that he will reach out to me as soon as I mentally allow it. I went back to social media stalking and I told myself this morning that I gotta stop that. So here I am, sharing my success story with manifesting this incredible weekend I had with my guy. Even though right now we are not where I want us to be, I know that we can get there. I need to get into that same head space again and if you have any advice for me, I'm totally open!! I really care about my guy and I want us to make this work. I know we can and we will as soon as I stop with the insecurities. It's so interesting that whatever you can imagine will come into reality and while that includes all the good, it also includes the icky stuff unfortunately and my weekend a couple weeks ago is a good example of the incredible ways things that you want can manifest and how not staying in alignment can throw off things again.. He will come back to me - I know this but right now, i'm in a bit of a funk emotionally and I kind of want to dust myself off a bit and I'm hoping you guys can help me... It's all possible. Sometimes, I forget that I know this
This story sounds like mine ... But it will have a great outcome .I know I'll get that text soon