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Hi all, I wanted to see what you guys think about the universe testing us. I've been feeling better and better everyday since I heard the engagement news about my ex. I actually told myself I'm proud that I've bounced back this quick. I was feeling so positive today that when I thought of the girl he's dating, I said to myself "don't worry about her, she's on her way out". I also focused that he has tunnel vision and only eyes for me. So I went to get my hair done and focused while I was there. Then I decided to make a stop at the mall on my way home to visit 1 store before they closed. I go into the store, still feeling great. As I was leaving that store, I looked to the left and saw my ex with the girl he's engaged to holding hands. He was at a bit of a distance but he turned and looked in my direction. I couldn't see her clearly and I'm glad I didn't. But my heart dropped and I quickly left the mall before I had any run ins. He lives 5 minutes from me and I purposely don't go to places around my area in times where I might seem them. I had a bad experience back in April when I saw his car at the mall and he was with her (I did not see them that time). However, this mall today is 30 minutes from my home and I honestly felt totally comfortable going there.
Why does this keep happening to me? I feel really good and positive and bam something happens that rattles me and leaves me shaken up. This is the 4th time it's happened in the past few months. Is the Universe testing me? I don't understand why this happened today.
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No, the universe has no capacity to test us, it is directly drawing things to you that are a match to the current vibration you have going on. It favours nothing, is non-judgemental, and is only ever delivering to you in every moment what you are a vibrational match to.
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Hmm I'm wondering why this happened. I honestly was feeling so positive and happy. I was at the hair salon and imagining us being together and him only wanting me. She didn't even matter to me much. So how was I a vibrational match to seeing him with her?
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I'm hoping someone can jump in here, Veronica? Because I had a similar thing happen to me.. Feeling great, high vibration and not so great interaction. For me though, I think that although I feel good, I still have some resistant thoughts or worries at times, so perhaps that why I manifested what I did..?
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Yea, I had my fears of running into them these past couple of months (because I actually almost ran into them before). However, it's not something I think of regularly and today I was feeling like she doesn't even matter. Plus, I was so sure this mall was a safe zone considering it's 30mins from my home. I wasn't worrying about seeing them at all.
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I think the important thing to remember is that when we are focusing on a goal - that anything that comes our way is something on the road to that goal.Β We may not fully understand it, but it IS leading to our ideal.
Try never to analyze anything as bad, or that you are taking steps backwards.Β Because when you continue onwards, you will find that whatever is happening in your current world is somehow getting you to the goal.
Of course, we want the easiest way possible with no pain whatsoever.Β Remember, the Universe is impartial and doesn't have a personality.Β It will pick whatever route possible.Β So, try not to judge and just go with the flow.
Rab924- it was no coincidence you saw him.Β Maybe, it was because he is still thinking of you and knows what he is doing right now with this other girl isn't the right thing.Β I mean, was it any coincidence you saw him? He attracted it too! Thus, he's been thinking of you! Feel empowered.Β Make him remember that it's YOU he should really be with.Β
And Cherished- maybe you did not manifest anything bad at all.Β If your vibrations were high, then from a scientific standpoint - how could you of manifested something bad?
Try to think more out of the box.Β If you focus on a goal, it's coming.Β NO MATTER WHAT.Β
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Oh that's so good! Love it, thanks Veronica! I'm taking it as an awesome accomplishment instead then π Reframing now!
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VeronicaAdmin wrote:
I think the important thing to remember is that when we are focusing on a goal - that anything that comes our way is something on the road to that goal.Β We may not fully understand it, but it IS leading to our ideal.
Try never to analyze anything as bad, or that you are taking steps backwards.Β Because when you continue onwards, you will find that whatever is happening in your current world is somehow getting you to the goal.
Of course, we want the easiest way possible with no pain whatsoever.Β Remember, the Universe is impartial and doesn't have a personality.Β It will pick whatever route possible.Β So, try not to judge and just go with the flow.
Rab924- it was no coincidence you saw him.Β Maybe, it was because he is still thinking of you and knows what he is doing right now with this other girl isn't the right thing.Β I mean, was it any coincidence you saw him? He attracted it too! Thus, he's been thinking of you! Feel empowered.Β Make him remember that it's YOU he should really be with.Β
And Cherished- maybe you did not manifest anything bad at all.Β If your vibrations were high, then from a scientific standpoint - how could you of manifested something bad?
Try to think more out of the box.Β If you focus on a goal, it's coming.Β NO MATTER WHAT.Β
Whewww!! Thank you Veronica I am honestly in a positive place that I'm not feeling despair over seeing them. I was wondering why this happened. Now I have been focusing daily and RS at least once a day. The funny part was that I was totally imagining him wanting only me and us being together. I even said "he has tunnel vision and only sees me" a few minutes before I went to the mall. So yes, it's possible he attracted seeing me and I attracted seeing him. Unfortunately he was with her and holding hands. But I don't think that means much. He could've saw me and thought about how he wants me and only me.
Thank you for this