1 - BooLala
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BEST ADVICE FOR EVERYONE
This is gonna come across maybe a bit harsh and may even sound a bit cruel but it's not and i apologise wholeheartedly if it sounds that way...
Let me tell you this; its been 2yrs since i was with my love I've learnt a lot and you know the biggest thing ive learnt which i believe EVERYONE who reads this should learn is that if your wanting an ex back or love then let me be blunt in a loving way, **** em...
Hear me out before you jump to conclusions. I've been miserable, full of rage, anger and hurt towards her for the way shes treated me. She will always be my true love and soul mate to me but she never deserved me. I could never be with her, too much hurt and pain there. The very most I'd go is a possible friendship. 2yrs of my life gone on pining and going through it all over this woman.
I know and believe in the LOA and believe me nothing is impossible but i dont believe its the bee all and end all as a lot of people think. If it was you could explain things like 9/11. Innocent children suffering... I believe that through using it you can build your dream life and get ANYTHING....
But... heres my point, why are YOU on this site to get an ex back, **** THAT. Build your life and focus on you, then focus on the ideal relationship, screw the ex. Let them pine for you and miss you, why should you miss them, why would you want them. You look at very strong individuals (by society's standard) prime example is footballer Cristiano Ronaldo, never mopes or pines for any ex and if you see his interviews regardless of this hes full of himself and fancies himself... if you look into him in more detail, he puts HIS standard of himself high not in a im better than you way but he knows his value.
Anyways before i babble on anymore raise your standard. Dont pine and cry for anyone. Let them pine and cry for you.
- YesIWILL
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While I agree with you on some things, I think you're being far too... closed about everything? If that makes sense?
You should live your life. But this forum is specifically for this. And sometimes people need help.
I understand what you're saying though, and on many points I agree. But not to a "**** them, don't cry over them" degree.
We all need to let loose sometimes and cry, if need be. But while I completely understand where you're coming from, I can't say I agree with all of your points here.
- MadMoiselle87
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Idk if that's the right forum to say '**** them' lol. But I agree to the fact that it's probably not a good idea to cry for someone who treats you like trash.. You shouldn't forget your selfworth by doing all of this.
- jenbeckley1992
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How can you make em pine and cry over you when you were only with them for 3 weeks, never met their friends or family, aren't connected on social media and they're in a relationship?
What you say us going against loa, you can ANYTHING yiy want, right? So why say **** it to getting back an ex?
- BooLala
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jenbeckley1992 wrote:
How can you make em pine and cry over you when you were only with them for 3 weeks, never met their friends or family, aren't connected on social media and they're in a relationship?
What you say us going against loa, you can ANYTHING yiy want, right? So why say **** it to getting back an ex?
3weeks is nothing. If they're in a relationship and your pining and wanting them after only 3weeks together then I'd personally think they weren't worth it. 3weeks come on, months, yrs yes but 3weeks why would you want them back. I spent 2yrs of my life wasted on hating and wanting her even tho i could get her back very easily as ive done it twice before but i see it as she doesnt deserve me, never did.
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Thread Starter- jenbeckley1992
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How can you make em pine and cry over you when you were only with them for 3 weeks, never met their friends or family, aren't connected on social media and they're in a relationship?
What you say us going against loa, you can ANYTHING yiy want, right? So why say **** it to getting back an ex?3weeks is nothing. If they're in a relationship and your pining and wanting them after only 3weeks together then I'd personally think they weren't worth it. 3weeks come on, months, yrs yes but 3weeks why would you want them back. I spent 2yrs of my life wasted on hating and wanting her even tho i could get her back very easily as ive done it twice before but i see it as she doesnt deserve me, never did.
Because I know he's the one. I remember saying that in my mind the very first time I saw him. I know he's the one,
You didn't really answer my question?
- Stacey
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I see what you're trying to say here, it's never about the ex and you should always focus on yourself and build a life that makes you happy. That should always be the priority.
Some people won't be at the same stage as you though when it comes to exes or specific people, so the whole "**** the ex" thing won't always apply to every situation.
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- BooLala
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How can you make em pine and cry over you when you were only with them for 3 weeks, never met their friends or family, aren't connected on social media and they're in a relationship?
What you say us going against loa, you can ANYTHING yiy want, right? So why say **** it to getting back an ex?3weeks is nothing. If they're in a relationship and your pining and wanting them after only 3weeks together then I'd personally think they weren't worth it. 3weeks come on, months, yrs yes but 3weeks why would you want them back. I spent 2yrs of my life wasted on hating and wanting her even tho i could get her back very easily as ive done it twice before but i see it as she doesnt deserve me, never did.
Because I know he's the one. I remember saying that in my mind the very first time I saw him. I know he's the one,
You didn't really answer my question?
I'll tell you my love is the one and my true love... I wrote a detailed list of my dream woman and it wasnt till months after we got together when i went over that list that i realised it was her, not only that but the moment i laid eyes on her, my first words were, "im gonna marry her". So you aint the only one. Maybe I've been put through that much that i dont feel anything, but i deserve so much better. She will always be my soul mate and true love but i wont ever go there again
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Thread Starter- BooLala
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I do profusely apologise to everyone with how i say things and i dont mean it in a hurtful manner at all when i say things like **** the ex.
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Thread Starter- jensherratt
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How can you make em pine and cry over you when you were only with them for 3 weeks, never met their friends or family, aren't connected on social media and they're in a relationship?
What you say us going against loa, you can ANYTHING yiy want, right? So why say **** it to getting back an ex?3weeks is nothing. If they're in a relationship and your pining and wanting them after only 3weeks together then I'd personally think they weren't worth it. 3weeks come on, months, yrs yes but 3weeks why would you want them back. I spent 2yrs of my life wasted on hating and wanting her even tho i could get her back very easily as ive done it twice before but i see it as she doesnt deserve me, never did.
I think you're out order to say 3 weeks is nothing. It may be a short time but doesn't mean its nothing.
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