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D came over the other night as a surprise visit since he was in the area. He's still VERY closed off. Anything about feelings and he goes distant.
Since it was a surprise visit I thought I'd put my meat pies from the microwave into the fridge and once I'd done that he lifted me up and put me on the kitchen bench and kissed me passionately.
I hadn't seen him since the night before my birthday in November.
I know I need to work on myself but I keep feeling down. It drives me nuts!!!
He made it seem like I wouldn't be first choice if he decided to date again. He's not looking I'm just friends with benefits. I think he got jealous when I texted him after midnight and told him I'd just been booty called by a guy I'd been talking to for a week. I shot him down, it was after midnight I was in bed and no way was it happening I am worth a proper first date !!!!
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TheChemist wrote:
This is amazing, Bellecat, after such a long hiatus! Congratulations!
A year really isn't long. It just seems like it when people focus on what they haven't seen.
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He always goes silent after seeing me!! Argh it drives me crazy!!
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He's so scared he's going to loose me to another guy, even though In this reality he doesn't want a relationship and he's not looking.
I don't know how to forget everything
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So my ex has reached out to me a about three times and I responded by being warm and loving each time. I know he is coming around slowly but what do I do? Do I reach out to him now...I'm at Day 21 in my book.
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Day 13 I Still know I will be his wife! Soon to be Mrs.R
Although I'm battling with a number of emotions that I won't let it overcome me! I still do my part. And I won't even shed light , on exactly what's going on! Because that just give the situation more power! I receive the biggest sign yesterday that I could EVER ask for! For starters I don't believe I even asked for a sign yesterday. I got lost while driving , and seen a street name with his last name which is not common to be a street name, and it was rather odd for me to get lost , because I've lived in the same city for years, second sign I was siting on the train and I look up while I was super engaged in my reading and a sign reads DONT GIVE UP! I actually needed to see that!
NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DESIRE! IT CAN & WILL HAPPEN.... You just have to believe!
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Bellecat wrote:
Hi everyone
I wanted to make my own thread so people can help me stay on track if I don't see anything happening.
I actually want to attract back a guy I passionately dated last year for 6 months.
Now my ex co worker would tell me to move on etc because he never really opened up to me and I never saw his place (lives with parents, he has anxiety from a previous relationship (he's perfect people! but she abused him!) and he's a teacher aide so he lives with them) and sometimes I rarely saw him or heard from him. But our chemistry and conversations were amazing!!!
I want him back I miss him but getting those doubts out of my head are going to be hard. He still appears online on my msn Skype but I don't know if I'm still added.
Here's to continuing to work on myself and getting D back!
****please read my latest message down below***
What techniques are you using to let go of doubt?
And I must add you should stop sharing your thoughts with people who are non believers , everyone on this forum are powerful creators and we believe in LOA most people don't which is okay.
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I know it's all about me, but he's stopped talking again for a bit and I miss my best friend 😭
This is so hard!