so my ex A and i, same sex relationship, had a long dragged out break up. it ended with me first saying i didnt see us as friends because she had another person. she then told me taht she had no interest in being friends. afterwards i had asked her to bring my blankets, we both are in the same class that meets up once a month. i thought over and over as to how i wanted it to play out and it drove me nuts. the day before the meet up i said, i surrender to God and the universe, and guess what, she bought me a new blanket, pillow cases and sheets in here favorite colors, red, white and blue, as well as her saying that she almost called me babe because it feels natural, i said that it would dissappear, then she said, we will see. she then later that day called me crying and asked for advice.. omg i was thrilled.. a week went by with no talking then i wrote in my gratitude journal that i was grateful to see her, on my way home from lunch with friends i saw her driving her vehicle!! omg what timing.. we didnt talk that day.. however i took it upon myself to call and leave a voicemail if she had a back brace because i hurt my back, she then texted back that she was sorry .. the text were emotionalless i think.. then i told her i got her a thank you card for the gift and i asked if i could give it to her thursday.. she said probably.. i dont know if this is the right thing to do.. am i forcing somthing.. ill remind you that i think she is still with the other person.. any suggestions on what i should say in the card.. help please!