1 - Meg2222
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Only wants me sexually?
Although I have had such great success, I still have some limiting beliefs. I am in contact with my love, he started saying we should have never broken up, we were happy, misses cuddling me.
My doubts came up thinking he had ulterior motives.. and what happened? He wanted to sext again (sending nudes to each other, etc.), thing is every time he asks this I start seeing him in a negative light again. He keeps saying I can't commit to you, as if hes trying to convince himself almost? As I am not saying anything to do with that! But I know its me, its my thoughts and vibration!
So my question is, how can i focus on the reality i want without feeling like **** and getting this little voice in my head saying "that wont happen". I just keep sending him unconditional love but its just like the last obstacle to manifest this relationship with him. We have dated other people, moved on, let go, all sorts. We always seem to come back to each other. I realised how much I am in love with him and I know he is in love with me...
How can I beat this damn limiting belief!!!
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Re: Only wants me sexually?
It's hard beating limiting beliefs at times. I don't think there's any quick fixes honestly. It takes some time, effort and patcience
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I do EFT with scripting, but without the tapping. It definitely feels more like freedom.
- Meg2222
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Thanks guys I have been affirming today "I believe C is deeply in love with me and he is commiting to me in a romantic relationship", It will take me a while I think but I have been working on my insecurities for a long time now so hopefully it will stick soon 
Has anyone else has this situation where its just sexual ?
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Thread Starter- zionthecomedian
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I try and switch it up, at least you know he finds you attractive and you're compatible sexually. For me I believe sex is a hugggeeeee part in any relationship so at least you know he's taking some form of interest so take it light heartedly and just keep him in check every now and then. My one tries too but I keep him in check all the time. I'm not that same girl I once was, and then just keep visualising the loving things you want from him xx
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The guy in my life isn't my boyfriend but I've noticed that my thoughts and feelings always reflect through his behaviour. I worry he only wants me for sex and we've had sex, I've also had days where I felt confident he was mine and he told me to ask him out, I haven't obviously since I panic and insecurities come to light but I've had him tell he that he wants me too and it's not just about sex. Once you're able to come to terms with him wanting you for more than sex that's what'll happen. 
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- Meg2222
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Thank you guys, every time I start to doubt now I keep saying in my mind " I'm sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you " And I feel it just calms my mind to stop worrying!! xx
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Thread Starter- jenbeckley1992
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Be grateful he wants at all, you can always change sexual feelings into love.
I've heard NOTHING from my guy, absolutely bugger all,
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This post wasn't about being ungrateful lol I am completely grateful he is in my life. I am grateful by sending unconditional love to him every day. It was a simple question of beating a limiting belief as this is the main root with everyone I think. Not feeling good enough! You will do just be patient. Having patience and faith is so very important x
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Thread Starter- Avaelle
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Identify people that have the type of relationship that you want. Actual people that you may see or know in person. Then do the "if they have it, so can I" thing.
I'm trying this method now with lottery tickets. A woman I went to school with won 1 million on a ticket. LOL So, if she can, I can. :D
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