Hi, 

My name is Aney, my husband and i been married for a year. We been in relationship 10 years before and were friends for 2 years before fall in love. He is a very jovial and amazing guy, he is very positive and i have lots of negativity in me. Which i try to change my self (but i failed). Earlier when in relationship we broke up twice. Once when he left me cause my attitude and tries to get back to his ex, but things turn sour and we got back together. second time we broke up cause my attitude again, i compare him with other peoples boyfriend, hurt him without i realizing asking him to give me time when he is busy and all. To be honest he is such a diamond, a wonderful guy that any woman be with him they will be the most luckiest girl, 

Despite all the issues we reconcile and got married, but we never be happy cause he is studying and working and im studying and working. And i kept pressuring him to give me time which he didnt, cause he was too busy. Then recently he had downfall in his business and he loose everything, i tried to be next to him to help him, but he refuse..and he took 2 months time off. up to feb 2017. yet, i do help him with small sum of money cause he needed it. he said after 2 months he will come back to me and we will start everything all over again, fall in love and all. but it didnt happen, he ended up send me a long text message and asking for divorce as he said the we dont mean to be together and we are just going against the universe. i didnt know what to do. SO i asking him to give me some time, which i never ask him before at all, i said i need sometimes to digest what he ask and i will speak to him when he is ready. 

He said he loves me, but he is not happy with the relationship at all. He wants to go separate ways. Im so confused, im upset but im trying to be happy. 

To be honest we do love each other so much and i want to start a life with him and have beautiful babies and family. We didnt even have sex because he never be at home. 

Im pretty down cause this. 

I just dont know what to do, although i wish to see him and start everything all over. And start a family. 

Any advice, someone who can help me. 

Thank you.