Dan2015 wrote:

My love texted me today. After not talking since like September.      And I've been mainly focusing on myself lately.   

Man, it will happen for you too, once you stop making her your main focus

Congrats!
 

Blue wrote:

You're welcome sweetie.e
Please just remember that you will get her and it is 100% possible but it is all about you! We all want you to succeed and honestly, it is hard seeing you struggle that is why some of us are harsh with you at times. But you WILL get there I can promise you that. Just continue pushing forward.

When those negative thoughts creep in, imagine them as annoying ads that pop up and just "x" them out
Or imagine putting all your fears into a balloon, let go and watch it float away.

Both this and your last post is so damn true,   I mean. I've gotten to a good place, even I still have bad hours.  Day and even semi bad weeks, it happens. We are human. And have other things in life to deal with.  But we have to use them as learning experiences and keep improving

One thing I notice is, my bad times now are shorter than they were a year ago. 


He needs to realize it's a process, it most likely won't happen overnight

Meg2222 wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Megan. 

Snap Same name as me  

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Blue wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

I'm feeling a little down today, but tyring to get back up. Thank you guys for the encouragement

You'll get through this. We're here for you.
I always watch this video when I'm down and it helps a lot. 

Thank you Blue)
You're so sweet. 

I just gotta believe that I can do this.

Blue wrote:

Remember to only give your attention to your desired reality. The more you think about what you don't want the more energy it gets and you end up manifesting and staying in the reality you don't want. Focus only on you two being loving towards each other, live in the end and don't worry about how everything else will fall into place.

I don't know what's stopping me from thinking in that light, and living like that. I keep myself stuck in the current reality. I think my worries stem from who she may or may not be seeing, who she's with, all the negative possibilties without me. And the fact that she hasn't shown any interest in even talking to me yet, meaning she still hates me.

I know those all have to do with my current reality, but I can't pull myself out of it. So that's the next step. I i need to find a way to push through that and live the life I desire. I know I'm the only one who can do that, but I don't know how. All I know is that I need to find a way. 

Thank you for the advice