Apple92 wrote:

So my ex works at Sysco checking trucks in and on my way to work yesterday I drove by a Sysco truck and I saw another tick that he checks in as well. The other night I had a dream that he texted me and today I saw a car and it had a sticker that said 1917 and his birthday is the 17th. Are these real signs or is it just me? Please help!

My birthday is the 17th too. Maybe it was a sign that I would reply.

Well, my take on signs is that there are none. You are the creator of your reality. Who or what should send you signs? If there were signs, it would mean that you weren't the creator of your reality, because someone could create in your reality. But in my experience, that's not the case. I think it works this way: You focus on something, for example getting your ex back. Your reality has to match your focus in some way, but your thoughts and/or feelings aren't fully in line with what you want, so the universe can't bring you your full manifestation. But as I said, it has to match your focus, so it brings you the things you don't resist. That would mean that seeing signs is an indicator that you have still resistance going on. So you can use that information to see where you are and work your way up to where you want to be.

Apple92 wrote:

Okay that makes sense...I guess have some resistance because of the way things ended. Does it matter how bad things ended?

Well, in a sense it does. Your question shows clearly that you believe that it does, or at least could matter. It's not that the circumstances are a problem for the universe. It's more that it can be a problem for you to get into the right mindset and feeling place. If you could completely trust and don't think ever again about what happened what you didn't like, it wouldn't make any difference how bad things ended.