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If I were to visualize my girl next to me, holding my hand and just being extra to me, happy, is that a way to manifest? It actually feels good!
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Blue wrote:
YesIWILL wrote:
If I were to visualize my girl next to me, holding my hand and just being extra to me, happy, is that a way to manifest? It actually feels good!
Yes. If it feels good then keep doing it
Like Neville said - feel it real!
I don't know if you've seen this before but it's helpful.
Yeah, I really appreciate that we must have a feeling from the inside and there should be no "cheating". Right? But then I fear all that we visualize shouldn't just turn into a defense mechanism.
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After experimenting with LoA for 1 1/2 years now, I think that the feeling is far more important than the image you see in your mind or the thoughts you think. When you can evoke the feeling that she is with you without any wobble, then you are there. You don't even really need to visulalise in the sense that you need a clear picture. If she was next to you and you closed your eyes, you still knew that she was there without having to picture her, right? I think it's more that knowing that she is there.
What I believe to be the most important factor right now is the purity of your feeling. Abraham tell us about the emotional scale, but they also say that it isn't a digital model (okay, they don't say it this way, that's my way of putting it). There isn't just empty space between the emotions. There are infinite combinations and ways you can feel. Now, if you want to be in a happy relationship with your girl, you have to find the pure emotion you would feel, if she were with you now. Can you remember how you felt, when you got to know her for the first time and everything was perfect? You probably didn't feel fear, doubt, desperation.
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When I originally intended to manifest an ex of mine back I'd always imagine him with me but then I'd go back to doubting so he never did reach out to me, as Sanshi said it's the feelings that are important. I've since moved on from him and I'm kind of involved with someone, we're all over the place though because I'm sending off mixed signals. Feeling good is the most important thing, visualising, scripting, affirmations or any other affirming act won't amount to anything unless there's genuine feeling involved.Β