Hi! So last time I was here I mentioned how I had been working on attracting a specific person. It's a guy I've had feelings for since a little over two years ago. I've always felt we had a deep connection but that he's probably afraid of it, and I've had at least a couple of psychics tell me that he and I will end up being together and likely this year. But he is in a relationship now and he and his girlfriend are still very much together. 

I've decided to work on detachment, which has been going well since I'm focusing on myself, fitness and health, and my career. I will say I'm in a great place because of it! That said, I decided to lean more towards the "this person or someone better" aspect, so I decided to make a list of all of the qualities I wanted in a guy down to what he looks like, his personality, good qualities, etc. I actually did this before and I met the guy I have feelings for a few months later and he fits everything on that list (I was so specific in that I wanted a guy who looked like a cross between Brandon Boyd of the band Incubus and Joseph Gordon-Levitt. lol that's specific alright but it happened!). Only thing is that we never did get into a relationship (at least not yet). So I did it again but this time I have another person in mind I'd like for him to resemble (I don't wanna jinx it so I won't say just yet!). I've also done this before when I said I wanted to date a guy who looks like the singer James Bay, and I did!

That said, while I put out there that other person I'd like to manifest, I'm also still open to the original guy I've had feelings for. Will this manifestation project go against that? I just want to be open to both possibilities! Could it be two-fold that me doing this has helped me detach from the outcome of the other guy and it will make my chances better with us being together? I'm just curious because I know the law of attraction asks to be specific, so I'm just hoping I'm not sending mixed messages to the universe.

That said, anyone ever make a list, or have someone in mind of what a person would look like and you manifested them? Crazy thing for me is that I've done that successfully and on several occasions (not just guys I dated but even friendships too). 

Last edited by blaireliza (3/11/2017 10:57 am)