I thought I was nonchalant, until I told him (today) that I still love him. I got affected, but not like before. I know the tools, but I am stubborn. Maybe you're in that state of letting go. If so, keep it up. If you are not attached to him, don't be like me and have that urge to contact him and do. And regret that you did. 

Last edited by Vera (10/25/2015 1:30 am)

It all comes down to what you believe. So if you believe that visualisation is key, then it is. The reason it DOES work, is that it puts you in a state of pure, higher vibration. When it becomes a chore, you're best to focus on doing something else that DOES raise your vibration. The problem arises when people think that there are a bunch of processes that must be done in order to manifest stuff.. But the processes ALL work if you believe they do! And they equally DO NOT work if you don't believe in them. As an add-on, DreamWalker has answered the question already! In wondering what you're doing wrong, and if it's necessary to do extra stuff, and in thinking how dull it is to do all that stuff.. And then recognising that something is hindering you.. you're messing with your own vibration! I personally enjoy visualisations but don't always have time. And I make peace with that and know that whatever time I do have, and whatever process I choose to employ will be absolutely powerful and yield to me my manifestations! I do think that deliberately imagining yourself with your love is a powerful exercise. As long as you choose to do the things that FEEL good to you though, you're on the right path. And I believe emphatically that if a person can stand in complete knowing and non-resistance about their desire, it would come immediately into their life.😊