PrettyFlamingo wrote:

To be fair I don't think Blue was rude or condescending. That's my view though. I think she was genuinely trying to guide you.

She could have worded things in a kinder way. She was being condescending. There's no way to sugar coat that. She's been rude not just here, but on other threads to me, and to others, and it's thatkind of attitude that is making me want to leave the forum. I don't want to, it's the only support I've got for my situation. But she is genuinely a hurtful and spiteful person. And it just brings me down.

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

I don't want to, it's the only support I've got for my situation.

Aren't you getting support from anxiety forums though?
 

Not about my ex. They're saying move on, etc. Same thing as my therapist. So... yeah. This is my support. 

Blue wrote:

No one is being rude to you.
We have been trying to help you since day one and it's been nothing but a constant run around with you. I don't know what more you're expecting from us. We have given you SO much advice and you refuse to take it time and again and you get upset and in this spiral again.

I'm not going to coddle you. I'm trying to be brutally honest with you so you can wake up and realise what you're doing wrong. We have told you SO many times how you can go about this, how to win her back, what to do, EVERYTHING. But you're not listening to any of us.

It's hard to support someone who is constantly not listening and bringing themselves down and not listening to advice. Over and over again. It's painful to watch.

Also, I'm pretty sure you're the same person on Lanie's forum who also got a warning for your behavior towards others. So I wouldn't be pointing fingers about anyone's attitude if I were you.

I want you off my threads, please.

YesIWILL wrote:

Thanks.

How are you going to handle this situation going forwards?

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

Thanks.

How are you going to handle this situation going forwards?

As always, I dunno hahaha! Oh I'm a wreck. LOL! All I know is I want to manifest her back. So there has to be someway. I'm hopeful of that...

@Avaelle, and I can visualize about a friend request from someone else? I can't bring myself to go on a date with anyone else even for fun. Thank you so much though I really appreciate the advice!!