YesIWILL wrote:

Forgot To mention I texted her after finding that out an hour or so ago. Just to wish her with the same message. Oh well. Back to NC now

Going no contact is the best decision.  People can pick up on desperation, even subcon and it isn't attractive at all. They don't want it.

Blue wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I hope this hasn't put you back to square one. What happened to not contacting her on her birthday so she wonders why you didn't?

I was undecided so I decided to send her a simple message. It's whatever. I was frustrated last night at one point for like 5 minutes but I'm fine now. I can still bring her back.
I was already in NC before, so I'll just head back into it. Really want her back though.

We told you not to contact her at all, yet you did.
We told you to stop being so desperate to get her back because she will come at her own time, yet you're still as desperate as you were before.

Do you really want this girl back because the pity parties are getting old. We have given you advice, so much of it and probably more than most people who have come to this forum. Pages upon pages of advice.

So question is why aren't you listening? Because at this rate you will never get this girl back and you'll keep complaining and harassing her.

Woah calm the actual **** down. I'm fine I'm not throwing a pity party. Why are you so mean??

No, curse more. I want to see more drama

Thing is, I very rarely swear unless I'm very, very cross. So if I see or hear someone using the F word I assume they are very angry or distressed or upset for some reason. I don't do casual swearing in general conversation so if I see or hear it I put my own interpretation on that.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Thing is, I very rarely swear unless I'm very, very cross. So if I see or hear someone using the F word I assume they are very angry or distressed or upset for some reason. I don't do casual swearing in general conversation so if I see or hear it I put my own interpretation on that.

Oh I'm furious. Her attitude has been nothing but rude and condescending toward me and others since day one. She's not a kind person, nor is she helpful. She's just... condescending and harsh. I think she needs to work on herself before commenting and being part of this forum.