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Hi All,
I am on day 5 of Veronica's 25 day challenge and day 20 of no contact from my BF and really struggling each time I look at my phone and see no message or call.
I am starting to lose my motivation to continue with the challenge and whether there is any hope left. It's also hard as I cannot talk to any of my friends or family about this as they all think I'm moving on and have started getting over the BF.
Really need some support and comments so would appreciate any tips, help or support all you lovely people could provide me with.
Thank you xx
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Keep at it and keep your vibration up. Try your best to focus on you . I Manifested my ex back once in 15 days and this is our 2nd breakup. One thing I didn't do was focus on what kind of relationship I wanted with him . I just wanted him back and that's what I got him with no changes . I know it gets hard but try to focus it works
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Thank you Antonio's wife - I can't seem to get myself to believe that it actually works and that's the problem.
What did you do for those 15 days when it worked for you? How do you advise I focus on myself?
Thank you very much in advance for your help!
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I purchased the 25 day challenge and followed it everyday along with watching the YouTube videos also I love to laugh so when I find myself falling low I would pull up some kind of stand up show or something funny to make me laugh . It key me from feeling so low . It works as I said before It's taking me a little longer this time . One reason I keep focusing on the break up so I'm starting over again.
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I think you're looking at the challenge the wrong way.Β When I did it,Β I didn't really see it as "let me complete these steps and he'll be back." I enjoyed the various activities, visualization ideas and how it taught me to see beauty in life in ways that I never saw it before.Β It helps to mold you into a person that isn't checking your phone every minute for him.Β Then,Β you'll be in a better position to maintain a happy and healthy relationship.
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Thanks both - that's really helpful.
Did you not find that the visualizations made you more attached to him because you were closing your eyes and imagining being with him?
Also did you find that by committing to the 25 day challenge you weren't allowing yourself to move on as you were so focused on manifesting him back that it was holding you back?
I am trying to do the 25 day challenge but am struggling to do all the exercises as I feel they are making me more and more attached to him!
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Thanks Avaelle - I agree re moulding into a person that isn't checking their phone and to be healthier and happier but isn't everyone doing the 25 day challenge to follow the steps to get their ex back?
Also did you share with your friends and family that you were engaging in the 25 day challenge?
Avaelle - did you manifest your ex back?
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Love I feel your pain and desperation to get this person back I have been there and never going back. Don't let this person have that much control over you where you feel out of control.
Act if is you already have him, he's calling you texting you don't call him your ex call him your BF don't worry about what friends and family say. Change your reality and it will reflect, your manifesting him not contacting you because that's the state of mind your in. Change your state of mind. Watch all of Veronica's videos on repeat!!
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Thank you!
That's so so helpful - I have actually been watching Veronica's videos non-stop this morning and have actually been feeling a lot better from them.
Did you manage to manifest your BF contacting you? How long did it take?
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I will manifest him, and I'm not worried how long it will take. Hahah you are a beautiful refection of my past patterns and how I have progressed in my thought patterns and you will progress too, you won't care when or how, you will just know it's on it's way!!!