BooLala wrote:

TheChemist wrote:

BooLala wrote:

Their loss

Hah, yeah. Everyone's reading it, though, and the advice is gold.

I think its so easy to get an ex back.
The advantage already is that there's already that connection, hence the word ex. You were an item. So there is the attraction state. The battle is having the clear focus. Once you have that focus and NOTHING from the past is holding you back it literally is the home stretch

You make a lot of good points. In fact, I'd say we still are an item, and that attraction completely persists. I know she's my soulmate, after everything else we went through, and I can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together.

Letting go of the past has been hard for me. I'm doggedly pushing myself to imagine only the future now, however. I took your advice and scripted how our relationship looks and how happy we are together, and I felt so serene and warm last night that I slept and woke with her in my arms and on my lips. Thank you so much for that advice.

BooLala wrote:

TheChemist wrote:

BooLala wrote:

I think its so easy to get an ex back.
The advantage already is that there's already that connection, hence the word ex. You were an item. So there is the attraction state. The battle is having the clear focus. Once you have that focus and NOTHING from the past is holding you back it literally is the home stretch

You make a lot of good points. In fact, I'd say we still are an item, and that attraction completely persists. I know she's my soulmate, after everything else we went through, and I can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together.

Letting go of the past has been hard for me. I'm doggedly pushing myself to imagine only the future now, however. I took your advice and scripted how our relationship looks and how happy we are together, and I felt so serene and warm last night that I slept and woke with her in my arms and on my lips. Thank you so much for that advice.

Yeah course no worries

So I took your advice. I'm scripting about our relationship all the time--while watching movies or inbetween playing games or bored at work--and it's amazing.

I've also started telling people we've re-united and we're working through our issues, and it's making it feel very real. Any day now, I'm sure I'll hear from her.

Steffiqt2 wrote:

Notice how you felt it then checked FB and saw it.  You manifested it we can still manifest things we don't want. It's your past pattern old habit of thought that you belived and it revealed itself. So now we can get rid of this pattern of fear and return to the true self no fear. Plus we ASSume it's a picture so what..and its social media? It's a breeding ground to stir up false perceptions!!

You've hit the nail on the head. I'm losing my fears and knowing how strong of a manifesting god I am, and it's absolutely helping. I'm not going to be my old self anymore, and it's starting to show. Also, yeah, **** social media. I've not been on in 4 days now, and I'm feeling much better. I know we're together and happy and wonderful