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The last few days looked very promising..he liked a lot of stuff on Facebook or commented and suddenly he texted me again from time to time. He even sent me a medley from the moana soundtrack the movie we've watched together and he sent me a picture from beauty and the beast poster as he saw it at the movies and I was so happy about that because I was hoping that he's gonna invite me to it when it comes out mid march because beauty and the beast had always a strong meaning to us..
But yesterday I was out with friends and we took pictures together. One of my two friends is a guy he always hated but since he dated another girl and he knows this guy is just a friend of me I've posted it on facebook. No two hours later he changed his profile picture to a picture with this girl :'( i was so hurt and wrote him 'if you're so happy that you're changing your profile picture to a picture with her than just finally leave me alone' and that he's overreacting about the picture with my friend. He answered short and distant that this wouldn't be the reason he posted it and he doesn't care about this other guy and he didn't mean to fret me with that. I told him that it's a strange coincidence that he didn't change his picture for months but once I'm going party with my friends he changed it. He didn't answer that because I'm right ...
But tbh it makes me anxious ... and it hurts because I really thought we could see us soon again and so on but since he's having a picture with her on Facebook as well (he only had one in WhatsApp by now) it's obvious something serious ... I don't know what to do anymore ..
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I'm puzzled. You posted a picture of you and a friend on Facebook and he (is he an ex btw?) does the same so you think he's done that as a reaction? Or game playing? I have lots of pictures of me and my friends who are guys. It doesn't mean I'm in a relationship with them.
I think you've overthought it and probably both overreacted. Just my thoughts though.
I'd leave it alone for a while, stop worrying and concentrate on having a positive time yourself. Raise your vibe that way.
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I'm puzzled. You posted a picture of you and a friend on Facebook and he (is he an ex btw?) does the same so you think he's done that as a reaction? Or game playing? I have lots of pictures of me and my friends who are guys. It doesn't mean I'm in a relationship with them.
I think you've overthought it and probably both overreacted. Just my thoughts though.
I'd leave it alone for a while, stop worrying and concentrate on having a positive time yourself. Raise your vibe that way.
Nah I know he's dating her since January but by now he didn't make it that public ...