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No contact rule
Hi so I wanted to ask people who've had some success here...
I finished my 25 day challenge maybe two weeks ago, and I've been feeling very aligned. So far no visible changes
In one of Abraham hicks' videos she said only take inspired action, and lately when I've been feeling good I've thought hey I should message him
Now I'm unsure if this is inspired action, me being impatient or if it's a good idea or not because although we didn't end on bad terms and according to a mutual friend he isn't angry or upset or anything but I was still blocked on social media... so I figure if he wanted to talk to me he would right?
I don't want to be ignoring my inner self but I also don't want to break no contact and ruin all this amazing progress I know I've made
Thank you
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bloa007 wrote:
I've been feeling very aligned. So far no visible changes
Either you are aligned with what you want or you are aware of its absence. It can't be both. And because of this simple reason, I wouldn't do it. As long as you look for changes in your reality, you aren't there yet.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Thank you so much! I will keep trying to find my alignment!!
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Thread Starter- Sasusaku
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Do not contact him! He Will make the first step, i know he Will! Just wait
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If I had uncertainty, I wouldn't do it. I'd wait until I was sure of everything and I could brush off his reactions.
The Universe is your playground.
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I know you are all right
I think not contacting him is the right option
Maybe I got a little impatient I don't know hahaga
This week I'm going to work on surrendering and trusting the universe
Thank you all xoxo
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ok so judge away hahaha
despite all of this wonderful advice during a time of feeling happy i thought "hey what the heck" and chucked a text under the thought that "if he doesn't respond its just that he needs for time"
he didn't respond all day and i was ok with it until one point i got a bit sad and felt defeated, but then decided to consciously raise my vibration and listen to abraham hicks videos and like 5 minutes in, 10 hrs after sending the text I GOT A REPLY
we actually had a nice chat, he was asking questions and replied quickly it seemed as if he ws genuinely interested to speak to me... and i finished the conversation (cos bed and also i didn't want to push my luck hahah)
so yayyyyy... ball is in his court now, we will see if there is anymore communication, wish me luck 
at the very least i feel as though we are on the path to friendship, which isn't exactly what i want (obviously) but is nice to exist to him again hahhaa
much love
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Thread Starter- Avaelle
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Congrats! There isn't anything wrong with being friends. Friends become lovers. ;-)
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Well it's definitely an improvement from where I was! And it can only get better from here :D
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