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Some more progress
(Please no negativity or criticism, this is my interpretation of my circumstances and perhaps this perspective can help someone.)
This has been slow process, but it's been so amazing. I've almost been crippled with gratitude lately, thinking about the place I was in a year ago. This time last year, we were still together but I was miserable, depressed, and suicidal. So this process is not just about bringing us back together, but it's been about both of us growing and transforming. I know he's grown too and we're getting to the final stretch here. I feel it.
What has really been helping me lately is looking at everything as evidence in my favor. The biggest thing I've started to notice, besides all of the synchronicities, was the relationships in my life sorting themselves out. I'm no longer a vibrational match to the friends I had before, who are so used to seeing me at my worst. Now that I'm at my best, and constantly share positive things on social media, they've been giving me a lot of hate and negativity for it, saying I'm lying to myself and others...it bothered me a little, but honestly, I realized I'm just not on the same frequency as them anymore. Making the conscious decision to choose positivity has just made me feel better overall. I even feel healthier.
On the flip side, I've been manifesting more people into my life, regardless if they believe in the LOA or practice it or not, who are supportive of me, my goals, and allow my positive energy to rub off on him. Even more so lately, I've met a couple of people I've been comfortable with telling about what I'm manifesting, and they're completely supportive and believe in me. They've seen old photos and have told me things like "you're a cute couple" and "I can see what you're saying, I can see it too."
I don't read too much into it, but I'm just thankful that my life is aligning with my desires. This to me is evidence that everything is lining up. It's been a journey but I know the two of us needed a lot of growth. Stay tuned because that big testimony is coming soon. ;)
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- MissMiles906
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Re: Some more progress
Hey there friend. I personally appreciate your honesty. And YES it resonates with me. These relationships some times break us into miserable little pieces where depression and suicide seem to be our best friends. And don't get me wrong...I personally think it's a fair and often honest thought for most.
The point is not killing yourself or dying it's just wanting the pain to end...am I right...so you kill the ego, the relationship died, they friends faded away and you hated every part of that life...WELCOME FRIEND...WWLCOME TO YOUR REBIRTH.
I too went through the same thing and foolishly missed my ex dramatically. But it was ME that I had abandoned. It was no longer him that abandoned me. LOA teaches us we can have anything we want right...your lesson is to want you and that's a damn good start because people will disregard you throughout life, but you'll nwver allow it once YOU love you.
So no negativity in losing friends. Your a newborn spirit and will attract like people. And should your ex still be in your goals, they too will appreciate the new you. Keep living, keep growing and love out loud my friend..you aren't alone.
- MadMoiselle87
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Re: Some more progress
That's quite interesting Creeeestal! I've recognized the same. Since I've met my love and especially since I'm thinking way more positive and stuff I've lost a few so called 'friends'. And you know what? As I look back I'm soo happy about it! Thanks to him and LOA I've found out that they were just jealous and mean! One of them even judged me because to her my life looks so easy lol. Others talked behind my back about me and my guy and another one always judged me because I loved my guy eventhough we had some hard times and for believing that I know we are meant to be no matter what.
But seriously.. who needs such friends? I realised which people are my real friends! They support me and understand me and my way. They don't need to understand LOA but they should have my back and this are the people I still have in my life and so I don't care about losing the rest lol. Don't need such negativity in my life.
Soo I guess we're both on a good way 
- Avaelle
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Re: Some more progress
I was thinking of all of my relationships this morning. Throughout my journey, I'm also realizing that I'm not longer an energy match to some of my friends. I'm having to hit the "show less of" button on their social media pages and interact with them less and less. It's for the better.
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- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: Some more progress
I'm not a big social media user except for work purposes so my connections with friends are by email, text, or heaven forbid speaking on the phone or talking in person! :D
I started doing quite a lot of "work" around the summer of 2014, taking law of attraction seriously. One friend totally airbrushed me out of her life, the then manager at work caused a lot of trouble for me when I started to stick up for myself and another friend - male - changed his attitude totally, firstly being very aggressive and then coming round to being a supportive friend.
I also got out of work situations that weren't serving me and into a very good one. And back in touch with two exes (friends only) and met another good friend whilst searching for another ex!
So things do realign themselves.
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- Antonio's Wife
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Re: Some more progress
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I'm not a big social media user except for work purposes so my connections with friends are by email, text, or heaven forbid speaking on the phone or talking in person! :D
I started doing quite a lot of "work" around the summer of 2014, taking law of attraction seriously. One friend totally airbrushed me out of her life, the then manager at work caused a lot of trouble for me when I started to stick up for myself and another friend - male - changed his attitude totally, firstly being very aggressive and then coming round to being a supportive friend.
I also got out of work situations that weren't serving me and into a very good one. And back in touch with two exes (friends only) and met another good friend whilst searching for another ex!
So things do realign themselves.
I have in the past year started to really dig into the law of attraction and trying to realign myself because I often get negative when I'm not getting the results I want. I manifested my ex back once and this time it is not moving in the direction I was hoping so now I'm working on double manifesting by scripting visualizing. . Life is what we create and I am working on creating some miracles
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