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Um, guys? I need advice?
I just saw something by accident on Facebook...when I was trying to cancel going to an event...and it took me to her last two posts and they are not good at all.
Not dating or new partner related but its bad for her (my love) and I dont know what to do at this point.
Thing is her roommate is threatening to EVICT her and I thought about breaking No Contact by calling to check on her tomorrow...I wasn't gonna make the same mistake of messaging her--like last time--cuz I caught her at a bad time but I'm like, well tomorrow's a new day and I can call her cuz I feel like she'll feel better.
Usually I feel uneasy when I see her online but today I have been feeling really calm...not really caring what happens, and I still felt calm when I saw her online status!
Plus, tonight I was gonna go to a meeting but I couldn't go at the last minute and when I tried to unclick the event on Facebook, it took me right to the timeline where I saw BOTH of her recent posts!
I'll send her loving PW vibes tonight but should I continue NC anyway?
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If you are going to contact with only good intentions and no expectations...go ahead
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If you want to sincerely see how she is doing, I don't see anything wrong with reaching out. Go for it.
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UPDATE:
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She just responded and thanked me for checking up on her!
Told her, "You're welcome."
I wanted to add more but that I wanted to help her...MONEY-WISE...
Just did my taxes...and Im willing to part with some of the money if the situation with her roommate hadnt improved...
Is it a good idea? Another friend says offering money isnt a great idea, cuz of the breakup but I don't really believe him lol
Anyway I am so very thankful right now and 21 days (3 weeks) in and want to make it to the challenge of 25 days this week! I'll even go for 30! xD
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Blue wrote:
princessgirl87 wrote:
UPDATE:
=)))
She just responded and thanked me for checking up on her!
Told her, "You're welcome."
I wanted to add more but that I wanted to help her...MONEY-WISE...
Just did my taxes...and Im willing to part with some of the money if the situation with her roommate hadnt improved...
Is it a good idea? Another friend says offering money isnt a great idea, cuz of the breakup but I don't really believe him lol
Anyway I am so very thankful right now and 21 days (3 weeks) in and want to make it to the challenge of 25 days this week! I'll even go for 30! xDOffering money isn't a good idea. Let them figure it out on their own.
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Okies. I won't offer money but instead I can send love and positivity.