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I've always had a problem chucking people I didn't want to go out with anymore. I'd meet someone, go out with them a couple of times and realise it wasn't going anywhere. I would feel terrible for rejecting them as if I didn't have the right.
I'd also think that if I reject Fred, then Stan, who I really want to be with, will reject me. I thought it would be karma.
Is that weird thinking or what? And I am not sure why I thought it.
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The universe will help you out when it comes to dumping people. Before I got my boyfriend back, I was talking to one guy who was really sweet but got quite annoying, I just said I want nothing to do with him (in my head) and he stopped talking to me
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Thanks. Sometimes I have a problem saying no and I'd love to know why and where that comes from.
I think partly from childhood and partly because I think if I say no, someone will say no to me about something I want. Someone has explained that further up. I remember being in anguish about chucking someone once years ago. I was worried they would think I was a *****.
Madness isn't it?
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As long as things play out decently, then I don't think you have anything to worry about. As long as you don't leave anyone sitting and guessing what happened, then you should be fine. Some people can be pretty cruel and throw others out like trash when they "aren't compatible"