tessy wrote:

Give him a call and tell him about the membership. Keeping mum wont help. Dont ask anything about his GF or dont indulge in any other talks. Just keep it to the point. If he's not telling u abt his GF, just dont take it up. But I feel do not encourage him for any other favours, financially or sexually. 

It's just so odd to me he was suppose to bring me the  money and he never called or sent any message . At one point I thought he posted the picture with the new girlfriend to get a reaction out of me . But I have not said a word I haven't even heard from him . He has not contacted me nor have I contacted him. He know the money came out so I'm not sure what he thinks he's doing .

Blue wrote:

Cancel the membership, you're not his woman so there's no reason you should keep paying for it.
Don't give him any power or link to you - even financially. Cut him off.

This was supposed to be he last month it came out . That was the reason he ended up at my place last week . He had time before work  so he stayed and talked the. We ended up having sex . He didn't get his check last week and he told me he would bring it Monday and I haven't heard a word since. I'm not sure what's he's doing I guess his doing the 30days of no contact with me as well. I just don't know  how to feel about this right now.

He has no reason to bring you money or anything because you're happily paying the membership each month.  I have to agree with everyone else, delete the membership. Let the gym call him about future payments.  It's not your headache to have.  He probably works out with his girlfriend as his guest and you're paying for it.