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Hate my current job and boss!!
Hi,
I need to vent some feelings. I hate my boss and work place!!!
I wrote already that I hate my current job. I can't find anything good about it and when I do try and manage to find something...my boss ruins it. I am in tears today coz of this job. I invest so much and get nothing back from them besides a salary (which is much lower than what the market offers). I am trying to think 'isn't it great that i no longer work here' but it is difficult.
I want to manifest my old job back but as people have said to me i need to let go of resistance so I am also applying for other jobs. I know exactly what type of company I want..what environment and everything.
I don't know what to do about this job. I am scared it is ruining my vibration and won't align me with the place i want to return to or in the meantime another good place.
Anyone been in a similar situation?
- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: Hate my current job and boss!!
Yes I have. I was in a job I couldn't stand for 7 years and we had a succession of terrible bosses. I did get out but only for a year and now I have something that is working well. I went for interviews from 2010 to 2015 before I got anything but I was going for specialized and very competitive roles where internal candidates were favoured 99% of the time.
All I did during that time was to focus on the good about my job i.e. the salary, early Friday finish, getting home at a decent time each evening and some of the colleagues were great and so was some of the work. But it was a bully and blame culture.
When my last one year contract was coming to an end - see my posts on here - I wished I was back in the old job as I had a guaranteed salary.
Thankfully it all worked out for me. Not sure I've been any help really as I had a lot of dark times over work.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- collie
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Re: Hate my current job and boss!!
I can't focus on the positive as even when i work hard my boss is disgusting and doesn't appreciate me.
I won't stick around for 7 years! I am just scared my negativity will prevent me from manifesting my old job.
I am constantly upset and pissed off and in tears coz of my current job!
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Thread Starter- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: Hate my current job and boss!!
I didn't stick it by choice. I had to pay the bills and live, and I was searching for something in a specialized field and my options were cut down as I didn't want to relocate. It did my head in but I had to make the decision to focus on my life outside work so it didn't take over.
Funnily enough I now work at the same place as a girl who went for a job there and didn't get it. I told her how very lucky she was!
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- Leli
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Re: Hate my current job and boss!!
Some days ago i write how i change everything in one of my job. I will write again. It goes from 0 - 100 in month or maybe less.
What was wrong:
- i was under control all my job time
- i had order to write down what i do and with whom
- i get bad words all the time
- my boss lay to director of company about me
- they accuse me for few things
- salary wasn't bad, but it was 30 - 40 % less that in other companys for less work
i use one of the most powerfull tool. It is gratitude. I start thinking this way. i have a boss, that mean that i get money every month, so with that money i can go and see some beutiful things, places, i can pay my bills, i can give money to my family, i can pay for more education etc... So when i write this down i found that on negative side i had my boss, on positive side i had 100+ positive things. I realized that i am blassed with my boss. i use gratitude everyday.
Few weeks later my boss send me a apologize message and ask me for advices. from that point, when i see her she always say to me that she miss me, that she need me in that job etc... Before she was my dragon, now she is my puppy. :D
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