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MissMiles906 · 2/14/2017 8:13 am

I heard somewhere that if your ex has nothing left for you ...love or hate...you're in bad shape.

I'm not blocked...we have spoken only to do his other daughtes hair and once to vent about his ex wife. But other than that he doesn't talk to me AND we have a kid.

Last date saw him, yes he stared me down but barely spoke. I don't think he hates me...I think he thinks I'm invisible. It bothers me. No matter how I find peace in my choices and dig into this LOA i notice we don't argue but we have nothing. It's been 9 months since the break and 5 of barely speak.

Any suggestions?

Avaelle · 2/14/2017 9:14 am

Do you feel invisible?

lovekinjal · 2/14/2017 12:06 pm

It is hard that a person cannot have any emotion towards you. Being a human, emotions are bound to be there. It might be either love or hate. I do not know how can you NOT have any emotion toward someone. It might be that one of the emotion might overpower the other and therefore, the person is confused about his emotion towards you. So I upright reject the theory that a person CANNOT have any emotion towards you.

Now lets analyse your situation in a positive way. He stared you down, which means he might have some feelings for you. But he did not speak which means he might be struggling with the thought of how to talk to you. He might be feeling worried whether you will accept him or not?

Secondly, he has not blocked you. That might mean that he does not want you to be out of his life altogether. He wants you to stay. But might be he is ashamed of taking the first step.

I gave you two positive aspects of your event. I hope this will help

MissMiles906 · 2/14/2017 1:39 pm

Avaelle wrote:
Do you feel invisible?

Oh course I don't. And strut around like I'm not in his presence. We have a daughter who is a toddler. So I don't wanna teach her to let others see you down or sad.

MissMiles906 · 2/14/2017 1:45 pm

lovekinjal wrote:
It is hard that a person cannot have any emotion towards you. Being a human, emotions are bound to be there. It might be either love or hate. I do not know how can you NOT have any emotion toward someone. It might be that one of the emotion might overpower the other and therefore, the person is confused about his emotion towards you. So I upright reject the theory that a person CANNOT have any emotion towards you.

Now lets analyse your situation in a positive way. He stared you down, which means he might have some feelings for you. But he did not speak which means he might be struggling with the thought of how to talk to you. He might be feeling worried whether you will accept him or not?

Secondly, he has not blocked you. That might mean that he does not want you to be out of his life altogether. He wants you to stay. But might be he is ashamed of taking the first step.

I gave you two positive aspects of your event. I hope this will help

Well the block was lifted from my understanding...we have a kid. I didn't event know I was blocked until a month ago since I equally needed my space.

He is normally someone who makes sure others feel uncomfortable in his presence when he doesn't like them. I've seen it done on plenty occasions.
I guess this is different because he was totally eye raping me.

I sent him a Valentine's day text with a picture of our kid...he did not reply what so ever...sent a birthday card and no reply. Oh boy oh boy!

Avaelle · 2/14/2017 2:28 pm

MissMiles906 wrote:
Avaelle wrote:
Do you feel invisible?
Oh course I don't. And strut around like I'm not in his presence. We have a daughter who is a toddler. So I don't wanna teach her to let others see you down or sad.

I understand, but are the feelings there and you're hiding them?

MissMiles906 · 2/15/2017 6:41 am

Nope I don't feel invisible in my world. But to him. I guess I don't understand the question.

Avaelle · 2/15/2017 8:34 am

MissMiles906 wrote:
Nope I don't feel invisible in my world. But to him. I guess I don't understand the question.

Ok good. I was going to say that if he is making you feel invisible then the most important thing would be to work on that.

Em · 2/17/2017 6:21 am

Always remember that it's not hate that is the opposite of love, but indifference. That might help you figure out where you stand with him.

MissMiles906 · 2/17/2017 7:52 am

Em wrote:
Always remember that it's not hate that is the opposite of love, but indifference. That might help you figure out where you stand with him.

I believe im at indifference. I don't think he has any feelings for me..no hate and no love. Nit even like or respect for the years spent and being his kids mom. I am really reaching out because I dunno how LOA is supposed to work in this instance.

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