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Antonio's Wife · 2/16/2017 2:02 pm

Yes I did something so silly 😜 I went to my ex social media page and what did I see . He's posted up with his new girlfriend and it was never a sign of me in his life at all. Yes my bubble is inflating and he was just at my house 2 days ago and we had sex. What am I doing . Help Please if you can

Avaelle · 2/16/2017 2:07 pm

Well, he isn't in love with that person if he was just with you. That part is obvious.

Antonio's Wife · 2/16/2017 3:45 pm

Avaelle wrote:
Well, he isn't in love with that person if he was just with you. That part is obvious.

I know he can't love her because she is obviously the rebound chick . I'm not sure if he did it for a reaction out of me . To see if was watching his page. I have not been calling or texting. Just staying busy so I'm not sure what his plot is . I refuse to let him know I saw it

Em · 2/17/2017 4:49 am

Scrap it and start over. Every day is a new day to start manifesting your desire. I understand refraining from checking social media is one of the hardest things to do in these instances, but all is definitely not lost.

Em · 2/17/2017 6:23 am

Was this guy already with this gal when he had sex with you or did their relationship come afterwards? Because it would leave me wondering why you would want to be with someone that would cheat on anybody, even if it was with you. I was presuming that his relationship came after your encounter?

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Antonio's Wife · 2/17/2017 7:56 am

Em wrote:
Was this guy already with this gal when he had sex with you or did their relationship come afterwards? Because it would leave me wondering why you would want to be with someone that would cheat on anybody, even if it was with you. I was presuming that his relationship came after your encounter?

When we broke up he started seeing her and I thought it was just a fling (rebounder)we had been together for 4yrs and we've had some problems . My goal was to have a talk and hopefully it would have helped our relationship but it turned into an argument and we broke up. We still have a lot things tied together financially . I really had not been contacting him any kind of way and the night we had sex he was coming over to bring money for a bill and how we ended up having sex was spontaneous. I guess I was looking more into than I thought it was. Because when we were together we didn't have sex that much so I took it as he was desiring me but I guess I just got played. I've been trying to manifest a loving relationship and when I tried the RS it seemed to work i guess I was in over my head. Although I saw the pictures I'm sure he was waiting for an reaction out of me . I vented here and as far as he knows I never saw the pictures even after us having sex I have not reached out to him. I was hoping being totally opposite of what I would normally do would help. My feelings are hurt I guess he won't come back

Antonio's Wife · 2/17/2017 8:02 am

Blue wrote:
This is why I asked you the other day: are you sure he's in love with you vs having sex with you.

Because if he was in love with you then he wouldn't be with this other chick. I know you care for him but you should ask yourself why would you want to be with someone who you just had sex with then two days later gets a new girlfriend.

I can't even explain it we had been together for so long and we had arguments we broke up once and got back together. I do love him and I felt he loved me in his own way I look back at some of the times we had together even the day we broke up I thought it would be just a talk and it turned into an argument . I guess I have been reading more into it than I thought and I thought this girl was a rebound . I had not contacted him or even let on that I wanted him back. The night we had sex he was bringing money to take care of some bills and we ended up having sex. I took it as something different because our relationship was never built around sex and then when it happened I was so happy that I may have a chance. I guess I need to move on . I really thought the law would work in favor of me getting the relationship I want with him back.

Antonio's Wife · 2/17/2017 8:07 am

Em wrote:
Scrap it and start over. Every day is a new day to start manifesting your desire. I understand refraining from checking social media is one of the hardest things to do in these instances, but all is definitely not lost.

Thank you we have already been broken up a month this is the longest we have ever been apart. I' will try to gather my feelings together and carry on.

Avaelle · 2/17/2017 8:31 am

Blue wrote:
This is why I asked you the other day: are you sure he's in love with you vs having sex with you.

Because if he was in love with you then he wouldn't be with this other chick. I know you care for him but you should ask yourself why would you want to be with someone who you just had sex with then two days later gets a new girlfriend.

We get so many different views about "them" having girlfriends on this forum.

Antonio's Wife · 2/17/2017 10:17 am

Avaelle wrote:
Blue wrote:
This is why I asked you the other day: are you sure he's in love with you vs having sex with you.

Because if he was in love with you then he wouldn't be with this other chick. I know you care for him but you should ask yourself why would you want to be with someone who you just had sex with then two days later gets a new girlfriend.
We get so many different views about "them" having girlfriends on this forum.

I know I just didn't expect him to move on so fast

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