Antonio's Wife wrote:

Tumom wrote:

Tired of this up and down roller coaster ride with him. One week happy and one week he doesn't want to talk , he's cussing to leave him alone and next week it's don't stop talking .
So we aren't really talking and yesterday I just text Happy Valentines Day to all my contacts including him.
Today as I'm praying and talking to the universe I just ask for a sign that Universe have my back .
I'm going on with my day , meditating and feeling good . The second I'm done my mediation I look at my phone and it's a text message from him or at least his number . It says " who might this be ?"
The person than goes on to tell me they got this number 3 days ago .
Mayb he's playing a joke or maybe the person is telling the truth and they just got the number .
In any case I'm shattered right now .
I asked for a sign and I got it , definately not the one I wanted , but I got it😞😞

Maybe it's just  a joke I had something similar happen to me . My ex was in my cellphone plan and when he left I told him to transfer the phone lines just because I was mad and I felt why should I pay for a bill and he's off enjoying his life. He did get another phone and phone number he gave me the number and told me he was only giving me the number if needed him. Which meant I wouldn't use it because what I needed him for he couldn't provide . But nonetheless he gave me the number I just don't call nor texted because I texted him the other day and he was cold and said I only gave you the number of you needed me . Then he came over and made love to me this is just the hot & cold act. You have to start feeling better and I know it's hard but focus on yourself I manifested doing RS don't get me wrong it was nice but I should have focused more on loving relationship not the sex aspect of it. So pick yourself up you are worth it 💕💕

Thank you . I definitely believe it's him since we last spoke on February 1st and I doubt numbers are recycled that fast but I'm okay with it now . I'll still be doing RS and meditation and visualization. Also scripting and PW but more than that I'm living and having fun and working on me . I know when he's done playing games he will be back in my life .

Suzy wrote:

Can someone explain to me why they would even want to be with someone who could be playing games? Why would you put energy into having that person come back into your life? For me to continue with LOA on a positive note to get back a person...I would have to call # to find out of its him or not. That way I would get answer of knowing if he is playing a game with me. I'm just not going hope he is not.

That still wouldn't be evidence that he wasn't playing this game with others.

Avaelle wrote:

Suzy wrote:

Can someone explain to me why they would even want to be with someone who could be playing games? Why would you put energy into having that person come back into your life? For me to continue with LOA on a positive note to get back a person...I would have to call # to find out of its him or not. That way I would get answer of knowing if he is playing a game with me. I'm just not going hope he is not.

That still wouldn't be evidence that he wasn't playing this game with others.

I think his game is that I won't try to contact him. Which I'm not going to anyway but whatever . It's fine , as I said , two old people from my past just contacted me out of the blue and I'm enjoying my life and making me a better me . I'm sure he'll contact me for whatever reason but I'm not going to dwell on the negative .

How do you give your all into LOA when you have doubts about if it's him or not?