Reading some old posts and listening to Joe Vitale, Neville Goddard and other teachings, I have now found the beauty in claiming responsibility for everything you see in your reality. Claiming responsibility allows you to take the 'blame', forgive yourself completely and provides you with the confidence to know you hold the solution to repair any situation. Forgiving someone for something they have done we did not like is actually forgiving ourselves. Looking at it from this angle has really shed a different light on LOA for me.