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It doesn't all happen at once?
I manifested contact with my ex after 9 months 2 weeks ago, we have been messaging all week and then on Sunday he said we can't do this again, it always happens and he doesn't want to get involved again. He said he was at a low point and is atm. I feel sick, I feel heartbroken. I thought things were finally getting good again after so long. The other day, somebody on the forum said things don't always happen at once or in the order you expect. Can anyone give me some advice on this? Any videos that explain? I'm trying so so hard to be positive but I really am struggling. He is friends with my Dad and they work together and everybody including my dad is saying all this negative stuff of how he only wanted to see me because he was lonely and at a low point and if he loved me or cared about me, he wouldn't do this. Help
- Tumom
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Re: It doesn't all happen at once?
positivefairy16 wrote:
I manifested contact with my ex after 9 months 2 weeks ago, we have been messaging all week and then on Sunday he said we can't do this again, it always happens and he doesn't want to get involved again. He said he was at a low point and is atm. I feel sick, I feel heartbroken. I thought things were finally getting good again after so long. The other day, somebody on the forum said things don't always happen at once or in the order you expect. Can anyone give me some advice on this? Any videos that explain? I'm trying so so hard to be positive but I really am struggling. He is friends with my Dad and they work together and everybody including my dad is saying all this negative stuff of how he only wanted to see me because he was lonely and at a low point and if he loved me or cared about me, he wouldn't do this. Help
I have no advice for you because believe it or not your story is the mirror image of mine . My and mine started talking again after 2 months and after 3 weeks talking he said he doesn't want to talk anymore .Im not sure if he blocked my number or if he's just ignoring me but he doesn't contact or talk to me . I'm a little hurt , but I try to remain hopeful and positive . I'm following just to get feedback .
- Meg2222
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Re: It doesn't all happen at once?
Don't believe what he or anyone else says. Focus only on you and your beliefs. You need to start having faith in yourself and start believing that you can do this. I know its so hard when people keep giving you their opinions but ignore it, and also stop talking to them about it! Don't talk to anyone about it! Keep this intention to yourself, focus on making your life happy and positive.
I think when you start talking again you must somehow get attached, which is only natural, but you need to find a way to balance it out and keep yourself calm.
Start working on yourself and focusing only on you for a while. And maybe without being rude but say nicely to your dad that you don't want to hear what he has to say and that you are focusing on you.
Just remember how powerful you are and how much you have manifested, remember that he does love you and you are worthy of his love and so much more, you got this don't worry! 
xx
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com