Maybe she created it because in her previous post she said she was "focused" on getting her ex. That could of created a bigger desire than her wanting to meet this guy. That could be what was put out in the Universe.

Suzy wrote:

Maybe she created it because in her previous post she said she was "focused" on getting her ex. That could of created a bigger desire than her wanting to meet this guy. That could be what was put out in the Universe.

Oh I see. That could very well be it. And col, I guess haha! I guess i just don't agree with the "x or something better". I'm one of the few who believe we can get exactly what we want. Which is why I'm not giving up on my gal.

I used to hate the "this or someone better" idea myself when I was younger but over time I grew to love it. Having attracted the specific girl I wanted in and out of my life several times over the years, I just grew to learn that she wasn't as great as the idea I had of her in my head. I had to get over my ego first and find my truth, I put her on a pedestal because I feared that I couldn't have this great chemistry with anyone else (wrong!), so out of fear I built up this false idea of her and spent a lot of time trying to attract her, she was easy and at the same time difficult....anyway....Ultimately what we are seeking is not really the person, but the inner experience - how we think being with that person will make us feel. Of course, everyone is gonna have a different path in life but I think the "x or something better" idea is a good reminder that it's really an emotional experience we're seeking and that we can experience this in so many different ways if we're open to abundance. It's very freeing. More often than not, holding onto someone - or rather the idea of them that we need them to fit for ourselves - keeps us trapped in cycles of resistance, keeps us trapped in the past too. Whether we like it or not, we have to move on, it's just the nature of life - if not from the person than at least from the resistance and the fear that keeps us chained to the idea of what we need them to be. It's about allowing yourself to feel how you want to feel now, regardless of what the conditions are.