Sanshi wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

So when I do think of him, what do I say? "He's already mine so stop being stupid" and eventually with conviction these thoughts of him should stop coming in my mind?

It's not only about the thoughts you choose, but the feeling you feel while thinking of him. How do you feel when you watch a clip with cute kittens in it? Can you assign that feeling (or another light feeling of your choice) to the thoughts of him? If you could feel those happy feelings related to him, you could think about him all day and everything would be perfect in no time.
 

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you for that. I feel happy when I see a clip of babies or dogs. I used to think that thinking about my desire all the time indicated that I don't have my desire and that's why I think about him. However, if I analyze myself I think most of my thoughts about him are with him and the other girl. So that's why I get nervous when I think about him. But after reading your replies, I have been doing this all wrong and it's time to change

I completely agree with Sanshi. Fortunately, I just posted about the same in one of my post in this forum, that you should not "TRY TO FEEL GOOD". Because, if you try you are not comfortable of feeling good. Feeling good should be natural and not from a place of discomfort. I can give you my example. I do think of my love almost 90% of the time I am awake. But I only feel good when I think about her. I feel loved always when I think about her. And if she is not in my head, I start practicing some small manifestations which can be instant. And 95% of the time, those manifestations does happen within an hour and that again lifts my belief over LoA and then again I think of my love and feel extremely happy and loved. So you can say, I play little LOA games everyday to feel good and at the same time think about my love. Trust me my days are now much much better than it used to be. I can say I am on a high flying disc almost 95% of the time of the day. And as far as the techniques of RS and visualization is concerned, I use them to meet my love on a daily basis, to feel her, to giggle with her, to love and be loved. I do not do it with the mindset of getting her back. But I love to stay in that vibrational reality and that is why I use those techniques. And this has helped me a lot in my path. My love is not back. But I know Universe is at my back. So there is nothing to lose at all.

​Btw Sanshi, you are a gem in this forum.

Last edited by lovekinjal (2/14/2017 2:00 am)

lovekinjal wrote:

I completely agree with Sanshi. Fortunately, I just posted about the same in one of my post in this forum, that you should not "TRY TO FEEL GOOD". Because, if you try you are not comfortable of feeling good. Feeling good should be natural and not from a place of discomfort. I can give you my example. I do think of my love almost 90% of the time I am awake. But I only feel good when I think about her. I feel loved always when I think about her. And if she is not in my head, I start practicing some small manifestations which can be instant. And 95% of the time, those manifestations does happen within an hour and that again lifts my belief over LoA and then again I think of my love and feel extremely happy and loved. So you can say, I play little LOA games everyday to feel good and at the same time think about my love. Trust me my days are now much much better than it used to be. I can say I am on a high flying disc almost 95% of the time of the day. And as far as the techniques of RS and visualization is concerned, I use them to meet my love on a daily basis, to feel her, to giggle with her, to love and be loved. I do not do it with the mindset of getting her back. But I love to stay in that vibrational reality and that is why I use those techniques. And this has helped me a lot in my path. My love is not back. But I know Universe is at my back. So there is nothing to lose at all.

​Btw Sanshi, you are a gem in this forum.

Lovekinjal, good to know that you're feeling great! Keep up the good vibes!