Laura1234 wrote:

lovekinjal wrote:

Hi all,

​Its being 3 months since I have started following LoA. And after going through numerous teachings and forums in youtube and other places, I have found a basic understanding of LoA. Based on that understanding, I would like to clarify one thing.

​In this forum, I have found people have come down to get their ex back. But most of them are still not being able to get them even after TRYING for more than a year. So let me clarify that LOA does not require you to TRY. You just have to put a check on your thought process. LoA is not a magic wand that you will swirl it in the air and things will fall in place. Its a practice of deliberate thinking. If you are TRYING, it means you are not at all comfortable in using LOA. The deliberate thinking should be done from a comfort zone.

​Secondly, many people do think that by using LOA we are using some kind of a magic spell on our ex and they come back to us. And thus, drops in the ethical barrier. So let me clarify, LOA is not black magic. You are not creating any magic spell. You are not forcing him/her to be with you. In LOA, you just send positive vibes in the Universe. And nothing else. Until and unless, your ex have sent a similar vibe in the Universe, he is not going to come back. Yes, you might ask that if he/she is dating someone else, then does not it mean that we are becoming the reason of a break up? For that, the answer is no. You are not the reason of anything. LoA does not mean that you get your desire at the cost of someone else's desire. LoA does not mean that you are depriving someone else from his/her desire to get what you want. You are just responsible for your own desire. If you ex comes back to you, then it means your vibration was much stronger than the person your ex is dating with. Your ex does have love for you as well as the person he is dating. But the love for you have been overshadowed by the current love he is having. But if your vibration is stronger than the vibration of the other person, then the vibration of love that your ex had been sending out all the time, matches up with your vibration and then he gets attracted back to you. So chill out because you are not doing any kind of unethical thing. You are just holding up to your vibration deliberately to give it a strength. If the other person whom your ex is dating currently is holding up the vibration as similar to you, then your ex might not come back to you at all. But if that vibration is having less power than you, then Universe will match your vibration and get your ex back to you.

​In the end, I would just like to point out one more thing. Many people have said to let go your ex to get him back. But I would say, let go the negative thoughts about your ex to get him back. If you persist with the negative thoughts about him, your vibration would be hindered and your ex wont come back. You do not need to forget your ex altogether if you can hold on to the positive thoughts about him always. Abraham says that you have to feel good before the manifestation happens. And to feel good you have to think only those thoughts which make you feel good. So if living from the end result with your ex makes you feel good round the clock, then so be it. You do not have to try hard to feel good. You can always feel good with the positive thoughts of your ex. But do not feel good with the intention of getting him/her back. Because that would bring about resistance in feeling good and you would start TRYING HARD to feel good.

​Love you all and may all of you get your loved ones back.

 I dont agree that If the other person whom your ex is dating currently is holding up the vibration as similar to you, then your ex might not come back to you at all. But if that vibration is having less power than you, then Universe will match your vibration and get your ex back to you.
Because this is parallel universe and here exist a milion version every person.you can create only your reality.Our world is just a ilusion.you can be with your ex and in the same moment he is with person who
Love him too in her reality..You can be with your ex and in another reality you are can be with person who wanted attract you ..

Hi Laura,

​First of all thank you for reading my entire passage and coming back with a feedback. You can disagree with what I say if it makes you feel good. Moreover, I used the word "MIGHT" which adds a pinch of probability to my statement. Even I believe in parallel universe, but what you are saying is all about vibrational reality and not physical reality. The statement that I made was based on physical reality which drives most of the members out here. You can be with your ex in parallel universe, but in getting that vibrational reality to show up in your physical reality, it depends on the strength of the vibration you are emitting.

​I hope I could explain myself in a better way. And thanks again for the feedback.