You manifested contact! That is AMAZING!!! I'm so happy for you. I completely get how heartbreaking that message would feel but from what I've read and seen with videos, sometimes things don't happen all at once or in the proper order. 

You are #1. 

The outside circumstances do not matter and all that matters is the story you've written, so fall in love with the process and at the most perfect time, everything will come together. 

positivefairy16 wrote:

Hi everyone, last week I manifested contact with my ex after 9 months. We got on really well and I was really happy. We've been speaking this past week however he's messaged me to say it can't happen again, he doesn't want to get involved. I feel heartbroken
Please give me advice

​Can you just do a little bit analysis of what were your thought process while you 2 came back on speaking terms? Did it ever happen, that you had that doubt still in your mind that he might again go away and so I should be careful this time? If you do find these thoughts, then just try to clear them as soon as possible.
 

positivefairy16 wrote:

Yes I am a big worrier so I had lots of these thoughts. What should I do now?

​STOP WORRYING. I know this is the only advice that others would give you. But I have been through it and therefore I know that its easier said than done. So you can do what I started doing to release those worries. I started meditating for 20 mins in the morning and 20 mins before going to bed. Now its a regular habit for me. In addition to that I have started listening to subliminals for positivity while doing my meditation. You can find many such subliminals in youtube but the one that really helped me was the below:




​Try these two things first. And try to ignore whatever he says about not getting back. When you will start meditating, you will eventually find yourself in a more calm position than you previously were. And that calmness would help you to ignore any negativity coming from your love.

​ALL THE BEST
 

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positivefairy16 wrote:

Thankyou! Did you have a similar situation?

​Kind of. Because of my worries she left. She is still my friend but we are not romantically involved.