Every video I've seen pretty much said that you can't 100% get your ex back and that most times someone better comes along instead of him and if he doesn't come then he isn't a match for you . I want him not someone better but it seems like hes not coming. Its been months and he still wont even send my things that he knows I care deeply about so should I just give up on him and try finding the "someone better"? is this the universe letting me know that we can't be together?