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MadMoiselle87 · 2/02/2017 7:00 am

The funny thing is this morning I already wanted to make a post about giving up. Since I broke the contact with my guy because he only wanted to be friends because he thought he fell in love with another girl blahblah and I couldn't handle that anymore he contacted me from time to time. Last week a lot of times by comments and likes on facebook and I really began to start seeing him coming back to me . But since last weekend he didn't react to anything and I really was afraid what's going on and maybe she's the reason (I don't know if she's in a serious relationship with him. He just had a photo together with her on whatsapp but I archived our chat history there because I don't wanted to see the picture anymore because it would stop me from keeping faith. Buuuut since he's commenting so much and stuff and doesn't post anything with her on facebook or on instagram maaaaybe she's gone already lol IDK but I'm too afraid to look at his profile picture lmao).

Anyway because of that I looked through his photos on facebook and found pictures from activities we did in the past where he tagged me. BUT the tag was suddenly gone. I was shocked because it seemed like he wanted to forget our past and so he probably wouldn't want a future with me. I was so mad and sad so I had to write him and told him how he could do that and some stupid other stuff.. Later I've found out that the same thing happened with my friend so it wasn't him it was a bug from facebook lol.
He told me he didn't do anything and doesn't know how that could happen. So I said sorry and we began a nice conversation lol. He told me that he moved finally in his new apartment and he bought such a thing where you can play music by voice control. I asked him if the thing also could play 'you're welcome' (a song from moana a movie we've watched together) and then he even sent me a video from himself where he's singing like he's singing to me ^^ and smiling and stuff it's soooooooo nice. We chatted quite a time and he told me that he threw the package from my christmas present away but the card I made by myself (a coupon in form of a clapperboard for a movie night together) which I glued in the top of the package he even cut out to keep it *.*. Beside that he told me that he's playing overwatch and sent me some pictures of his favorite charakter there (which is strange because in the past he always said she looks like me lol). We didn't talk for long but it was nice talking to him and even seeing him well at least on the video lol.

So it's strange... if I wouldn't have wrote him because I was mad I wouldn't have this nice conversation with him lol. But it's weird... do you guys think I'm on a good way? For me it seems like he's missing me but he didn't say it...

Any opinions?

P.S.: I COULD WATCH HIS VIDEO AALLL DAY <3 I LOVE HIS SMILE SO MUCH :D

Creeeeestal · 2/02/2017 2:03 pm

I completely relate to you with the Facebook thing, I've acted out on those feelings too and actually something similar happened to me!
I was seeing that my pictures with him I wasn't tagged in anymore, but then they were there again the next day. It's Facebook being buggy. Then I noticed his tags were gone from my old posts, but then I remembered, a month after our breakup, I changed my Facebook settings to not include his name in my memories. lol
It's ok that you messaged him, don't beat yourself up about it if you ever feel like doing so. Everyone's situation is different and I know with me, and my history, I needed to focus on getting myself to the place where I'm not chasing the man.

I say feel good about the conversation and don't worry so much about how you got there. I'm glad you were able to have a nice conversation and you know what? I think it's a good indicator for the future! Be proud of yourself! Think about it, you started freaking out on him about something to do with facebook.......you listened to him and his perspective, and you apologized and talked about nicer things! Were you able to do that before?

I know in my relationship, I would hold onto it for days if he liked another girl's picture or if another girl commented on his appearance. DAYS. Now I'm just like "who cares, they don't even want him." Which is true because alll of those women from before are dating other people now, and if they truly wanted him when we were together, he'd be with them by now. I guarantee it. He's still single and I'm still single, it's only a matter of time.

Not trying to make this about me but I like to share my story a bit to show that I actually relate to you. Save that video! Keep it as part of your vision board! Plus if you're doing any creative visualization it's easier to picture their face when you have a recent video or picture. You're doing fantastic!

MadMoiselle87 · 2/03/2017 2:52 am

Creeeeestal wrote:
I completely relate to you with the Facebook thing, I've acted out on those feelings too and actually something similar happened to me!
I was seeing that my pictures with him I wasn't tagged in anymore, but then they were there again the next day. It's Facebook being buggy. Then I noticed his tags were gone from my old posts, but then I remembered, a month after our breakup, I changed my Facebook settings to not include his name in my memories. lol
It's ok that you messaged him, don't beat yourself up about it if you ever feel like doing so. Everyone's situation is different and I know with me, and my history, I needed to focus on getting myself to the place where I'm not chasing the man.

I say feel good about the conversation and don't worry so much about how you got there. I'm glad you were able to have a nice conversation and you know what? I think it's a good indicator for the future! Be proud of yourself! Think about it, you started freaking out on him about something to do with facebook.......you listened to him and his perspective, and you apologized and talked about nicer things! Were you able to do that before?

I know in my relationship, I would hold onto it for days if he liked another girl's picture or if another girl commented on his appearance. DAYS. Now I'm just like "who cares, they don't even want him." Which is true because alll of those women from before are dating other people now, and if they truly wanted him when we were together, he'd be with them by now. I guarantee it. He's still single and I'm still single, it's only a matter of time.

Not trying to make this about me but I like to share my story a bit to show that I actually relate to you. Save that video! Keep it as part of your vision board! Plus if you're doing any creative visualization it's easier to picture their face when you have a recent video or picture. You're doing fantastic!

Lol really? Luckily I'm not the only 'crazy girl' haha :D. Facebook is an asshole -.-.
I really was like 'are you serious is it really necessary that you even delete our past' and he was just like 'what are you talking about?' lmao sooo emberassing ...
Well I really don't chase him anymore. I did that for too long and as he said he would be in love with another girl I really was done and broke the contact. And he started chasing me and trying to act like nothing would happen. Because he can't be without me he needs me in his life, like I need him. It has always been that way and will be! But I didn't want to be just friends so I said to him he should understand me and that I don't want to be just friends. Since that time he's mostly commenting and liking stuff on facebook instead sending me a message lol.

Yeah I'm very happy how it was going and so I think it was a part of the plan of the universe because otherwise I wouldn't contact him at all :D.
And you're right I really calm down fast on other days I would going on and on. And he hated that soo much about me .. But I'm a better person now .

You can be happy that your guy is still single... I don't know if mine is too... This morning I add a new contact to whatsapp and I saw that he still has the photo with this girl on whatsapp as his profile pic :/.
But if it would be so serious why should he send me such a cute video of hisself singing to me? And why should he keep my christmas coupon for a movie night if he doesn't miss me?

I'll definitely keep my work going. Yesterday when I did my visualization and RS he wrote me while I'm doing it lol sooo I don't think that was a coincidence. He sent me some pics of his new apartment .

Creeeeestal · 2/04/2017 8:18 pm

MadMoiselle87 wrote:
Creeeeestal wrote:
I completely relate to you with the Facebook thing, I've acted out on those feelings too and actually something similar happened to me!
I was seeing that my pictures with him I wasn't tagged in anymore, but then they were there again the next day. It's Facebook being buggy. Then I noticed his tags were gone from my old posts, but then I remembered, a month after our breakup, I changed my Facebook settings to not include his name in my memories. lol
It's ok that you messaged him, don't beat yourself up about it if you ever feel like doing so. Everyone's situation is different and I know with me, and my history, I needed to focus on getting myself to the place where I'm not chasing the man.

I say feel good about the conversation and don't worry so much about how you got there. I'm glad you were able to have a nice conversation and you know what? I think it's a good indicator for the future! Be proud of yourself! Think about it, you started freaking out on him about something to do with facebook.......you listened to him and his perspective, and you apologized and talked about nicer things! Were you able to do that before?

I know in my relationship, I would hold onto it for days if he liked another girl's picture or if another girl commented on his appearance. DAYS. Now I'm just like "who cares, they don't even want him." Which is true because alll of those women from before are dating other people now, and if they truly wanted him when we were together, he'd be with them by now. I guarantee it. He's still single and I'm still single, it's only a matter of time.

Not trying to make this about me but I like to share my story a bit to show that I actually relate to you. Save that video! Keep it as part of your vision board! Plus if you're doing any creative visualization it's easier to picture their face when you have a recent video or picture. You're doing fantastic!
Lol really? Luckily I'm not the only 'crazy girl' haha :D. Facebook is an asshole -.-.
I really was like 'are you serious is it really necessary that you even delete our past' and he was just like 'what are you talking about?' lmao sooo emberassing ...
Well I really don't chase him anymore. I did that for too long and as he said he would be in love with another girl I really was done and broke the contact. And he started chasing me and trying to act like nothing would happen. Because he can't be without me he needs me in his life, like I need him. It has always been that way and will be! But I didn't want to be just friends so I said to him he should understand me and that I don't want to be just friends. Since that time he's mostly commenting and liking stuff on facebook instead sending me a message lol.

Yeah I'm very happy how it was going and so I think it was a part of the plan of the universe because otherwise I wouldn't contact him at all :D.
And you're right I really calm down fast on other days I would going on and on. And he hated that soo much about me .. But I'm a better person now .

You can be happy that your guy is still single... I don't know if mine is too... This morning I add a new contact to whatsapp and I saw that he still has the photo with this girl on whatsapp as his profile pic :/.
But if it would be so serious why should he send me such a cute video of hisself singing to me? And why should he keep my christmas coupon for a movie night if he doesn't miss me?

I'll definitely keep my work going. Yesterday when I did my visualization and RS he wrote me while I'm doing it lol sooo I don't think that was a coincidence. He sent me some pics of his new apartment .

Awwww, keep up the good work!!! That is amazing! I've never had instant results like that from RS. I'm going to start up again though after taking a break from it for awhile. Just keep the good vibes going!! Like Veronica says the circumstances just don't matter.

MadMoiselle87 · 2/06/2017 4:01 am

Creeeeestal wrote:
MadMoiselle87 wrote:
Creeeeestal wrote:
I completely relate to you with the Facebook thing, I've acted out on those feelings too and actually something similar happened to me!
I was seeing that my pictures with him I wasn't tagged in anymore, but then they were there again the next day. It's Facebook being buggy. Then I noticed his tags were gone from my old posts, but then I remembered, a month after our breakup, I changed my Facebook settings to not include his name in my memories. lol
It's ok that you messaged him, don't beat yourself up about it if you ever feel like doing so. Everyone's situation is different and I know with me, and my history, I needed to focus on getting myself to the place where I'm not chasing the man.

I say feel good about the conversation and don't worry so much about how you got there. I'm glad you were able to have a nice conversation and you know what? I think it's a good indicator for the future! Be proud of yourself! Think about it, you started freaking out on him about something to do with facebook.......you listened to him and his perspective, and you apologized and talked about nicer things! Were you able to do that before?

I know in my relationship, I would hold onto it for days if he liked another girl's picture or if another girl commented on his appearance. DAYS. Now I'm just like "who cares, they don't even want him." Which is true because alll of those women from before are dating other people now, and if they truly wanted him when we were together, he'd be with them by now. I guarantee it. He's still single and I'm still single, it's only a matter of time.

Not trying to make this about me but I like to share my story a bit to show that I actually relate to you. Save that video! Keep it as part of your vision board! Plus if you're doing any creative visualization it's easier to picture their face when you have a recent video or picture. You're doing fantastic!
Lol really? Luckily I'm not the only 'crazy girl' haha :D. Facebook is an asshole -.-.
I really was like 'are you serious is it really necessary that you even delete our past' and he was just like 'what are you talking about?' lmao sooo emberassing ...
Well I really don't chase him anymore. I did that for too long and as he said he would be in love with another girl I really was done and broke the contact. And he started chasing me and trying to act like nothing would happen. Because he can't be without me he needs me in his life, like I need him. It has always been that way and will be! But I didn't want to be just friends so I said to him he should understand me and that I don't want to be just friends. Since that time he's mostly commenting and liking stuff on facebook instead sending me a message lol.

Yeah I'm very happy how it was going and so I think it was a part of the plan of the universe because otherwise I wouldn't contact him at all :D.
And you're right I really calm down fast on other days I would going on and on. And he hated that soo much about me .. But I'm a better person now .

You can be happy that your guy is still single... I don't know if mine is too... This morning I add a new contact to whatsapp and I saw that he still has the photo with this girl on whatsapp as his profile pic :/.
But if it would be so serious why should he send me such a cute video of hisself singing to me? And why should he keep my christmas coupon for a movie night if he doesn't miss me?

I'll definitely keep my work going. Yesterday when I did my visualization and RS he wrote me while I'm doing it lol sooo I don't think that was a coincidence. He sent me some pics of his new apartment .
Awwww, keep up the good work!!! That is amazing! I've never had instant results like that from RS. I'm going to start up again though after taking a break from it for awhile. Just keep the good vibes going!! Like Veronica says the circumstances just don't matter.

You're sooo right girl I'm flying high right now haha and I'll definitely keep up the work I feel he's coming back to me I'm even a bit nervous lol sooo strange!

I'm doing RS every second day and visualize everyday because I don't want RS him too much because I did RS everyday in the past and then he came back but mainly for sexual reasons lol it works but you have to be really careful about that

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