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Damaging thought
I feel in a pretty good balance and time is less an issue now than it had been before. I take the time as it comes and know the universe got my back.
But one thing keeps nagging me and have a hard time letting it go.
My girl always wanted another baby, and now she's with this guy who also has a child. And I can't let go of the thought "what if she gets pregnant with him?"
How do I let go of this damaging thought?
- big_blue
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Re: Damaging thought
In the 3rd Harry Potter movie (not sure if you've ever seen them), there is a scene where the class is faced with their biggest fear. It comes into physical form before them. These kids are petrified, but with a single swipe of their wand and a thought, their fear turns into something funny, like a spider on roller skates.
Sure, you can't swoosh a wand and make everything go away, but you can give your fears other thoughts. Tell yourself that the kid is hideous and your girl would NEVER want to procreate with the boyfriend. Tell yourself the boyfriend has enough kids. Tell yourself SOMETHING that'll change that fear.
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Re: Damaging thought
Actually I wouldn't think of her getting pregnant with him at all. You are still putting out the intention of it occurring.
Maybe think of her getting pregnant with your child instead?
I tell you this because my girl went through a pregnancy scare recently and I believe it was because I kept on worrying about her getting pregnant while she's not with me.
- Lj
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Re: Damaging thought
I do think about her getting pregnant with my baby.
But all thru December, before I knew about LoA, I kept thinking "she's pregnant in about two months with this guy", and now I think "what if I sent out so much of this energy that it's irreversible?"
I do keep positive thoughts about her every day and send out lots of heart energy. But this baby thing is hard for me to stop thinking about.
Mostly because before she left me, I constantly thought "does she still love me?", "she's going to break up with me soon" etc.
And she did.
Then I thought "she's seeing someone new", "she found someone better than me" etc.
And she did.
So now, I think what if I also "made" her pregnant and engaged with this new guy because of all my negative affirmations?
I made all the other things come true. Why not this?
But I appreciate your input and thank you so much ❤
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