Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » Get back on to my life but still didn't see a thing of manifest.

Deliciously_happy · 10/20/2015 3:45 am

Well the good news is : you're extremely powerful with your current vibration you managed to manifest boy problems, car problems and now graduation problems with some exhaustion on top of that . Which is the perfect proof that it works what you focus upon , builds up and manifests perfectly in your reality and as you notice it it just becomes more ... I'll say : you're super duper powerful!

So now the question is : do you want to keep manifest these things ? If so carry on love and that's okay, you're on a roll ! Just know that when you're complaining you're manifestinf - when you're worried you're manifestinf - when you're looking for reasons to confirm why your story is so hopeless and you're out of luck any way - you're manifesting...that's where you seem to feel comfortable for now so just stay there -

When you're ready and decide for a shift, a change - then we can help you. Until then, we're only manifestations for you confirming it's hard and life is sh*t ... Whether our intention is clean or not - your belief defines your experience.

So we'll just wait around until you're actually ready and willing to give this a real shot

Hisoneandonly wrote:
Cherished wrote:
What happened here?! I was gone for one hour and you indulged in a full-on negative rampage! This isn't going to help.. Everyone is working to help raise your vibration except for you! You're going to need to commit to doing your best. I asked you to say some positive things about yourself! You see, words and thoughts are POWERFUL. They create your future. If you want a better future you simply MUST focus exclusively on GOOD THINGS. Let's try again! It doesn't matter if you don't believe the words entirely yet. Reach for words that are just a LITTLE better.. We need to get you moving UP to happiness, not just perpetuating misery every single day! You must be exhausted!

I'm so exhausted cherished. Why can't he be back already..how can't we be like the past? Like how much he care, how much he get jealous easily...when I woke up, I quickly visualise what I want, and I felt so happy, but it just last for a while... then the bad experience came and hit again...

I just got a news that I might can't graduate. I'm so stressed out.

Hisoneandonly · 10/20/2015 4:30 am

Cherished wrote:
He can't be back because you aren't making a sustained effort to raise your vibration.. And you have the power to do that. You are just choosing to not practice!

I did tried. And I really do practice...it goes up and down... I did felt good for the morning now but it didn't stay for long..

Hisoneandonly · 10/20/2015 4:47 am

Deliciously_happy wrote:
Well the good news is : you're extremely powerful with your current vibration you managed to manifest boy problems, car problems and now graduation problems with some exhaustion on top of that . Which is the perfect proof that it works what you focus upon , builds up and manifests perfectly in your reality and as you notice it it just becomes more ... I'll say : you're super duper powerful!

So now the question is : do you want to keep manifest these things ? If so carry on love and that's okay, you're on a roll ! Just know that when you're complaining you're manifestinf - when you're worried you're manifestinf - when you're looking for reasons to confirm why your story is so hopeless and you're out of luck any way - you're manifesting...that's where you seem to feel comfortable for now so just stay there -

When you're ready and decide for a shift, a change - then we can help you. Until then, we're only manifestations for you confirming it's hard and life is sh*t ... Whether our intention is clean or not - your belief defines your experience.

So we'll just wait around until you're actually ready and willing to give this a real shot

Hisoneandonly wrote:
Cherished wrote:
What happened here?! I was gone for one hour and you indulged in a full-on negative rampage! This isn't going to help.. Everyone is working to help raise your vibration except for you! You're going to need to commit to doing your best. I asked you to say some positive things about yourself! You see, words and thoughts are POWERFUL. They create your future. If you want a better future you simply MUST focus exclusively on GOOD THINGS. Let's try again! It doesn't matter if you don't believe the words entirely yet. Reach for words that are just a LITTLE better.. We need to get you moving UP to happiness, not just perpetuating misery every single day! You must be exhausted!

I'm so exhausted cherished. Why can't he be back already..how can't we be like the past? Like how much he care, how much he get jealous easily...when I woke up, I quickly visualise what I want, and I felt so happy, but it just last for a while... then the bad experience came and hit again...

I just got a news that I might can't graduate. I'm so stressed out.

I dont want to keep manifest these things anymore...i just want him back.... i want to change this...but nothing seemed to changed... i keep seeing him post things that i dont like him to do on our class group chat...he read my snaps like he read others too. I dont think anything is changing...

Deliciously_happy · 10/20/2015 5:06 am

Well there you go manifesting some more - you don't believe it's going to change so it won't. You're also not willing to do the work for it so unfortunately things will stay as they are. It's just like you saying I'm overweight and I really want to lose weight but I keep focusing on sweets, junk food and even though I eat a salad and go to the gym once a week I'm not seeing any weight loss.

If anything I'm just gaining more weight - and then you sit with us asking us for help and we tell you eat healthy things that enegize you, find people weight loss journey to motivate you, think about all the clothes you will be able to buy and the wonderful feeling of being healthy again - focus on that and go with it - even if you don't go to the gym , move your body as often as possible do things you like that will help you thrive.

And everytime your response is : yeah I would really like to be able to fit in that dress I saw that I really liked, and I enjoy how good it feels to eat healthy .... But I feel bad about being overweight and it will never change and look at everyone else who got what they want - why can't I have that, and I don't understand I ate salad last Thursday why didn't I lose weight yet ?

You can have it .. But you stop yourself from working for it because it's easier to look at the issue than to force your mind to think otherwise.

So if you've decided nothing can happen- so be it- maybe you should just drop the subject for a while and come back to it when you feel better/lighter ...

Because there's unfortuntaely nothing we can say or do to make that change for you. It's your decision and yours only.

Last edited by Deliciously_happy (10/20/2015 5:09 am)

Debbie · 10/20/2015 5:20 am

Hisoneandonly wrote:
Debbie wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
So what should I write now..? Things what I want?.. I felt neutral just now. I hope it's good.
Hisoneandonly, I have been reading your thread, and I am here to tell you that you are certainly intelligent, so surely you can put that down on the list no?
Cherished has made a wonderful thread dedicated to self appreciation, so why not take a look at that, too? Here it is: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=389

Hi debbie, Thank you, thankyou for thinking that I'm intelligent. But I would still doubt myself too. But I'm still so thankful that you thinks that I'm intelligent and you put a smile on my face thanks a lot

You are certainly intelligent, my friend. And you are also clearly a very sweet and lovely person. All that is so obvious from the posts you are making. But what is happening is that you need to work a bit on your self esteem. Get that in order and you will raise your vibration and find the manifesting a lot easier. Really we do understand how you feel and most of us here have all been there, and we've all questioned and doubted about why the loa sometimes takes so long to work, why we are in this situation, etc. I have certainly had self esteem problems and negativity in the past, but really just know that you can change your vibration and get your guy back. There is absolutely nothing to stop you if you choose to make it that way.

Hisoneandonly · 10/20/2015 9:52 am

Deliciously_happy wrote:
Well there you go manifesting some more - you don't believe it's going to change so it won't. You're also not willing to do the work for it so unfortunately things will stay as they are. It's just like you saying I'm overweight and I really want to lose weight but I keep focusing on sweets, junk food and even though I eat a salad and go to the gym once a week I'm not seeing any weight loss.

If anything I'm just gaining more weight - and then you sit with us asking us for help and we tell you eat healthy things that enegize you, find people weight loss journey to motivate you, think about all the clothes you will be able to buy and the wonderful feeling of being healthy again - focus on that and go with it - even if you don't go to the gym , move your body as often as possible do things you like that will help you thrive.

And everytime your response is : yeah I would really like to be able to fit in that dress I saw that I really liked, and I enjoy how good it feels to eat healthy .... But I feel bad about being overweight and it will never change and look at everyone else who got what they want - why can't I have that, and I don't understand I ate salad last Thursday why didn't I lose weight yet ?

You can have it .. But you stop yourself from working for it because it's easier to look at the issue than to force your mind to think otherwise.

So if you've decided nothing can happen- so be it- maybe you should just drop the subject for a while and come back to it when you feel better/lighter ...

Because there's unfortuntaely nothing we can say or do to make that change for you. It's your decision and yours only.

it's easier to look at the issue than to force your mind otherwise yes,this explains everything..

I want to stop these negative. I want to change.I want him to be back to me. I want to have a good results and have money to study in uk , we'll not have ldr anymore. I want things to be alright from now on.

Last edited by Hisoneandonly (10/20/2015 9:53 am)

Hisoneandonly · 10/20/2015 9:55 am

Debbie wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Debbie wrote:

Hisoneandonly, I have been reading your thread, and I am here to tell you that you are certainly intelligent, so surely you can put that down on the list no?
Cherished has made a wonderful thread dedicated to self appreciation, so why not take a look at that, too? Here it is: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=389

Hi debbie, Thank you, thankyou for thinking that I'm intelligent. But I would still doubt myself too. But I'm still so thankful that you thinks that I'm intelligent and you put a smile on my face thanks a lot
You are certainly intelligent, my friend. And you are also clearly a very sweet and lovely person. All that is so obvious from the posts you are making. But what is happening is that you need to work a bit on your self esteem. Get that in order and you will raise your vibration and find the manifesting a lot easier. Really we do understand how you feel and most of us here have all been there, and we've all questioned and doubted about why the loa sometimes takes so long to work, why we are in this situation, etc. I have certainly had self esteem problems and negativity in the past, but really just know that you can change your vibration and get your guy back. There is absolutely nothing to stop you if you choose to make it that way.

Aww, that's so kind of you! Thanks for helping me to build my self esteem and yep,I can change my vibration and get my guy back, I just don't know how hmm.. but, hey Thank you so much

Deliciously_happy · 10/20/2015 12:24 pm

Hisoneandonly wrote:
Deliciously_happy wrote:
Well there you go manifesting some more - you don't believe it's going to change so it won't. You're also not willing to do the work for it so unfortunately things will stay as they are. It's just like you saying I'm overweight and I really want to lose weight but I keep focusing on sweets, junk food and even though I eat a salad and go to the gym once a week I'm not seeing any weight loss.

If anything I'm just gaining more weight - and then you sit with us asking us for help and we tell you eat healthy things that enegize you, find people weight loss journey to motivate you, think about all the clothes you will be able to buy and the wonderful feeling of being healthy again - focus on that and go with it - even if you don't go to the gym , move your body as often as possible do things you like that will help you thrive.

And everytime your response is : yeah I would really like to be able to fit in that dress I saw that I really liked, and I enjoy how good it feels to eat healthy .... But I feel bad about being overweight and it will never change and look at everyone else who got what they want - why can't I have that, and I don't understand I ate salad last Thursday why didn't I lose weight yet ?

You can have it .. But you stop yourself from working for it because it's easier to look at the issue than to force your mind to think otherwise.

So if you've decided nothing can happen- so be it- maybe you should just drop the subject for a while and come back to it when you feel better/lighter ...

Because there's unfortuntaely nothing we can say or do to make that change for you. It's your decision and yours only.
it's easier to look at the issue than to force your mind otherwise yes,this explains everything..

I want to stop these negative. I want to change.I want him to be back to me. I want to have a good results and have money to study in uk , we'll not have ldr anymore. I want things to be alright from now on.

So very happy to read your response so very awesome so very yay you !!! This is where it begins - the decision to change - now write that list down as if it's done :

My love is back, my results are great, the money for the UK is sorted and I'm awesomely positive because that's what I chiose and evryday it gets easier and easier.

Promise yourself to repeat that all day every day in your head until you've said it 1000 times. Even when it feels like you're bs-ing yourself , repeat it over and over. And before you go to sleep, while you're laying into slumber repeat : something wonderful is happening right now - over and over until you fall asleep.

When saying your new mantra doesn't feel right and like you're reaching and it's hard for you to say it - just say thank you for every single step you make during the day in your head while you're walking even if it's from the room to the kitchen - but only when you're not feeling your mantra and you can't be bothered.

We're all here for you when it gets tricky ... But the one rule that cannot be broken is : no negative posting at least for a week ... Just letting us know how your day went without judgement on yourself or anxiety...

Deal ?

Cherished · 10/20/2015 3:50 pm

Come join the other thread and tell us why you're fabulous!!

Hisoneandonly · 10/21/2015 12:36 am

Deliciously_happy wrote:
Hisoneandonly wrote:
Deliciously_happy wrote:
Well there you go manifesting some more - you don't believe it's going to change so it won't. You're also not willing to do the work for it so unfortunately things will stay as they are. It's just like you saying I'm overweight and I really want to lose weight but I keep focusing on sweets, junk food and even though I eat a salad and go to the gym once a week I'm not seeing any weight loss.

If anything I'm just gaining more weight - and then you sit with us asking us for help and we tell you eat healthy things that enegize you, find people weight loss journey to motivate you, think about all the clothes you will be able to buy and the wonderful feeling of being healthy again - focus on that and go with it - even if you don't go to the gym , move your body as often as possible do things you like that will help you thrive.

And everytime your response is : yeah I would really like to be able to fit in that dress I saw that I really liked, and I enjoy how good it feels to eat healthy .... But I feel bad about being overweight and it will never change and look at everyone else who got what they want - why can't I have that, and I don't understand I ate salad last Thursday why didn't I lose weight yet ?

You can have it .. But you stop yourself from working for it because it's easier to look at the issue than to force your mind to think otherwise.

So if you've decided nothing can happen- so be it- maybe you should just drop the subject for a while and come back to it when you feel better/lighter ...

Because there's unfortuntaely nothing we can say or do to make that change for you. It's your decision and yours only.
it's easier to look at the issue than to force your mind otherwise yes,this explains everything..

I want to stop these negative. I want to change.I want him to be back to me. I want to have a good results and have money to study in uk , we'll not have ldr anymore. I want things to be alright from now on.
So very happy to read your response so very awesome so very yay you !!! This is where it begins - the decision to change - now write that list down as if it's done :

My love is back, my results are great, the money for the UK is sorted and I'm awesomely positive because that's what I chiose and evryday it gets easier and easier.

Promise yourself to repeat that all day every day in your head until you've said it 1000 times. Even when it feels like you're bs-ing yourself , repeat it over and over. And before you go to sleep, while you're laying into slumber repeat : something wonderful is happening right now - over and over until you fall asleep.

When saying your new mantra doesn't feel right and like you're reaching and it's hard for you to say it - just say thank you for every single step you make during the day in your head while you're walking even if it's from the room to the kitchen - but only when you're not feeling your mantra and you can't be bothered.

We're all here for you when it gets tricky ... But the one rule that cannot be broken is : no negative posting at least for a week ... Just letting us know how your day went without judgement on yourself or anxiety...

Deal ?

Yea sure! Deal thanks a lot ;)

Last edited by Hisoneandonly (10/21/2015 12:38 am)