So I've been using RS on a man in in love with for almost a year now, I've had a lot of success with it, I know he's felt the feelings and intentions I've sent but about 7 months in things went quiet between us and when we got back in contact he told me about something he did that devastated me. Ever since then we've barely been in contact and it's made me really sad, I know in theory that I did attract the misfortune because I spent the time away from him crying and worrying about other women and that was exactly what had happened but I'm having a very hard time accepting that I attracted it. Now when I think of him I do still love him but I can't help but feel resentful and feel the need to guard my heart from him because of the heartache I've been through. I know that it keeps him away because each time I've truly let go of the anger and attachment to the hurt, he would come back but I would panic and he'd disappear again. I do want him back but I'm having a really hard time accepting that I'm the one who attracted the misfortune into our relationship and letting go of the notion that he's just an untrustworthy person. All my friends are saying what happened means he doesn't care about me, it's all so confusing for me. Please help?