We are told not to put our lives on hold, stay active and live our lives while also acting 'as if'. I find these two hard to marry. Most of the time I am sure my love and I will be together again and start our lives together, which is great. It's about trust in the universe, and I have it (more than I don't).

However, in my desire, I want to move to my love (different country) and not stay here. So while I do have things I could do to improve my life in other regards (better job, apartment and renewal of my phone contract) I feel that these sometimes conflict with my desire. Should I still pursue them? Should I still try to get a job here etc., and just trust that the universe will take care of contracts etc when the time is right?

How do I act 'as if'?