The first important step is to get clear about what you want in a person. Then focus on the feeling of love, having the awesome relationship with that person and it will happen fast. I think the average time it took me to meet the new person after I got into the feeling place was three days.

Whatever resonates with you. Get creative with it, if you like.
Memories are a great tool to get into that feeling.

Normally, I'd just visualize scenes of love and feel as if it's real, with a combo of making your life awesome and finding things to appreciate in yourself that makes you feel very attractive.

Funny enough, I tend to attract results fastest when I give up expectations and do it just for the feeling and not to make anything happen (but when you really want something so bad it's hard not to stay in the mindset of expectations and making things happen).

I made a list a long time ago too. The results were cool. I know it's cliche but it all came together when I let go. I was new in college and lonely, I wanted love like a dog wants bacon, so I made the list. It took three months to realize that a new girl in my social circle fit everything on my list.

Of course, I didn't meet her until I stopped hungering for love, I stopped worrying about whether I was good enough or not, I stopped living in frustration over it, I just "let go" by focusing on homework and living my life with more peace of mind.

I think another thing that helped a lot was that I was in a setting with many girls, so it was easy to feel assured that I'd meet someone I'd really like, it was just a matter of time and patience to me. It helps a lot to look at the setting and circumstances in your life and see the abundance that's already there. Things often work out for me in ways that I never expected and it just goes to show you that there are many different ways for good things to happen and we can be unaware of it.

Honestly, attracting new girls into my life that I really, really like hasn't been too difficult, I just have confidence in that abundance. But the same problems occur every time - communication and distance issues. That's why I think it's good to challenge old fears and beliefs you've had, to release resistance. You may find someone new you really like, but maybe old problems will surface, old patterns will repeat and I think it's good to look into how to challenge them and release them. It's helped a lot lately for me to get into the feeling of what I want.