I had been casually dating this guy for a few months. Last weekend he asked me to come over to talk... Well turns out he "didn't want a relationship" and "I deserved more" and "we need to stop this before it ends in unnecessary heartbreak" I felt crushed at first but tried to pull myself together. Funnily enough, he asked before I left "wouldn't it suck if I had a change of heart?" So I let it go and felt really good about it. I visualized 1-2 times a day and also used Lanie's technique once a day. On Tuesday he wished me a happy birthday, which is weird because I never told him my birthday and we aren't friends on facebook. I said thank you!! He didn't reply but i didn't get too discouraged. Well last night he texted me AGAIN and said how was your birthday? He wanted to know what I did, how it was, etc, etc. Plus he passed a test for the military which means he doesn't have to move. He said I get to stay here We talked for a good 5-10 minutes before I cut it short. I'm so excited and curious to see what happens!!