Blue wrote:

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

I'm quite confused right now... Since my guy is dating another girl I broke the contact because otherwise it would hurt too much. Idk if they are already in a relationship .. I don't think so aaaaanyway. I was searching google if you're able to attract your love eventhough they're with someone else and found a forum where someone said it's NOT possible ... because to attract stuff you have to have the same vibration and if he's with someone else he doesnt' have the same vibration like you anymore because he doesn't want you anymore but you do...

But I always thought it is possible but this vibration stuff does make sense too ..

It is, just ignore your current reality and do RS/visualizations. Everything will fall into place. There is no such thing as impossibilities/not possible situations.
 

Thank you blue your comments are always so positive. You really bring my faith back

MiracleMaker wrote:

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

I'm quite confused right now... Since my guy is dating another girl I broke the contact because otherwise it would hurt too much. Idk if they are already in a relationship .. I don't think so aaaaanyway. I was searching google if you're able to attract your love eventhough they're with someone else and found a forum where someone said it's NOT possible ... because to attract stuff you have to have the same vibration and if he's with someone else he doesnt' have the same vibration like you anymore because he doesn't want you anymore but you do...

But I always thought it is possible but this vibration stuff does make sense too ..

MadMoiselle, I notice one thing many LOA teachers advise when trying to manifest something is to avoid bouncing across different forums and focus on the technique you are using. I believe the main reason for this is that LOA depends heavily on trusting and having faith and exposure to all these opinions will deter your manifestation. If you notice, some of these posts can be quite contradictory..its kind of like you can have everythinggg you want..but NOT that! Why not? if I claim responsibility for contributing to the problem through my thoughts and actions, then why can't I contribute towards the solution? Don't vibrations shift? can it not be possible that he is at a low vibration hence the vibrational match with someone else, I noticed that many success stories state when their love came back the person was a rebound and it makes you realize this 'relationship' with the other was actually from a dark place. But not giving any more energy to that other person. Focus on yourself and the love that you want for yourself. Piece together your ideal relationship and give nothing else your energy. Acknowledge the bad thoughts as fear, discard them with love and tell them thanks but no thanks. Everything is going be to fine. You will get your love back

You're so cute thank you so much for this awesome advice ^^. You're right it doesn't make sense then everything is possible but not to get him back lmao. I'll get him back he even knows that we're soulmates and I really even can't imagine not seeing him anymore. Thanks so much you're all so awesome