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Please don't give up. Everything that happens is because you create it with your mind. Nothing is out of your control. I've proven this to myself, and if I can do it then of course you can too. It just takes some disciplined thinking. Some relaxing. Some affirmations, and truly visualising what you want and believing it can be done. π
Last edited by Cherished (10/19/2015 4:16 am)
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LoveYourself wrote:
Shy, you could distract yourself from your current sitch. Distract yourself π Go and do something for you. Have a beauty or hair treatment
I'm having a colour put in my hair at the mo
I am taking back the focus onto me, I feel that I'm starting to neglect my needs and that when I need to kick myself up the backside and focus again
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Yes! Always get your hair done!! π I did nails and hair the other day and it felt so great!! So much so that a few people mistook me for someone famous!! Haha! I must have been vibing the "awesome famous person with awesome new hairstyle" vibe! Be kind to yourself. Remind yourself why you are fabulous. In fact I'm about to start a thread about that, please everyone come join. An exercise in loving ourselves ππ
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Thanks all of you . I just read all of these advices and was trying not to think about him so I will keep focusing on my own happiness, come what may. It was thoughtful to decide what I exactly should do at the moment, I'm setting everything free from my control. I will try to make peace with the current situation again..especially related to marriage proposals. I detach myself from all my desires...
As you people said I got hair treatment and clicked few pictures of mine ( I like to take my pictures in different hair styles). It really put a smile on my face. So..I don't care about him whether he texts me or not. I'm happy he unblocked me and I wished him, I won't give it more energy. I will only keep myself happy.
Last edited by Shy (10/19/2015 9:24 am)
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It's all going to be perfect Shy.
I am sure you brought a huge smile to his face when you wished him.
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Debbie wrote:
Oh I'm so happy for you, Shy!Β This is progress!Β If he unblocked you then it means that you are on his mind and that is what matters right now.
I definitely think that your RS has been working and that is most likely why he has unblocked you. If he doesn't respond to your texts right now, well, he may still not be quite ready for that yet. But the unblocking is proof that something is going on there.
Cherished is so right in telling you to keep focusing on your ultimate goal. I once had a friend who made a vision board of herself getting married to her guy, for example. She got a picture of a couple getting married and pasted her face and her guy's face over the ones of the bride and groom. Whatever is your ultimate goal, focus on it, visualize it daily and keep up with the RS!!!
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Makes sense. You're right Debbie. He unblocked me so he must be thinking about me. I should give him time to react on his own.
I did the same for vision board thing when I was working on RS..I have pictures of us as bride-groom which I created on my phone and would imagine us together.
Thanks a lot
Last edited by Shy (10/20/2015 2:19 am)
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love wrote:
It's all going to be perfect Shy.
I am sure you brought a huge smile to his face when you wished him.
I hope so
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LoveYourself wrote:
Yay! So pleased you're feeling positive again Shy
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