- tessy
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Re: It's been a while
Hie there....You are a "WARRIOR" which shows you have been here for a while....the best thing I liked in your msg was when u said "u hated the someone better" option and now u are open to it! Thats what LOA does, it will change the mind in a way we believe ITS OUR THOUGHT! N congratulations that the new person is such loving and fun to be with! You know why he is so loving and fun? Thats because u vibrate the same energy towards him!!! He looks at you exactly like that....now what do u want? To be the same FUN LOVING wonderful girl right??? So just forget about when he responds and when he dosnt....YOU ARE IN CONTROL....take it easy....he will be coming to u just the WAY U WANT...Remember the UNIVERSE RESPONDED to you and now u respond and do not REACT! The moment we vibrate the "needy" "waiting" vibrations it just goes down south!! Take it lightly and remember men love women who shows no neediness....HE NEEDS U...and just go with the flow. Just keep the worries away!! Look forward to hear more from you!!! TC
- iinikkii
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Thank y'all so much! I wish I had good news to share, but as it stands he isn't talking to me at all now. I've tried to talk to him, and he just ignores me. I know this is my fault, yet I don't understand how this has happened. I guess maybe I did dip down into neediness and this is the result? 
I just don't know what to do
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Thread Starter- Colonel Roosevelt
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iinikkii wrote:
I feared he would pull away and not want to pursue anything besides a friendship.
Is this a recurring pattern? Has it happened in other relationships? Is there anything you can do to accept the fear and release it?
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Yah I guess it has been sorry of a reoccurring pattern in my life. I just really want to draw his attention again,
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Thread Starter- PrettyFlamingo
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I feared he would pull away and not want to pursue anything besides a friendship.
Is this a recurring pattern? Has it happened in other relationships? Is there anything you can do to accept the fear and release it?
I used to think things like that. I used to think blokes would think I was a nuisance. It's really important to see yourself as deserving.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Okay soooo... things haven't been going so well. I got upset earlier on my way home from work, -!: I sent him a text saying I wish things could be different between us. He responded in what I thought was a somewhat angry tone, reaffirming that we are only friends and that I'm getting on his nerves. well.. I decided to delete him from snap, Facebook and deleted his number from my phone just bc right now I'm too tempted to try to contact him. I felt like it was the best thing for me to do for me. I'm pretty upset bc I really like this guy a lot, /'d I know initially he really liked me too!! I really hope me deleting him from everything doesn't hinder me being able to attract him back! I would LOVE some input ladies!! What should I do and be doing?? I'm not desperate, I know that either way I will be okay.. but I really do like him a lot
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Thread Starter- iinikkii
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Have I ruined my chances by deleting him from everywhere?? I'm pretty upset with myself about all this. I don't want to have screwed up any chance I had. I just knew that if I didn't delete him it was gonna be hard for me to not contact him
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Thread Starter- iinikkii
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Would love anyone's input!! Feeling pretty down about all this
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Thread Starter- sunny
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Would love anyone's input!! Feeling pretty down about all this
Hi iinikkii, no, you haven't ruined anything. It's not about the actions you take, it's about your vibration and aligning with the reality you want. I think it's wise to know when to back away and focus on yourself, which is what you're doing here.
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Have I ruined my chances by deleting him from everywhere?? I'm pretty upset with myself about all this. I don't want to have screwed up any chance I had. I just knew that if I didn't delete him it was gonna be hard for me to not contact him
In my opinion (and really, its MY personal opinion so others may differ) I think you helped yourself by deleting him. You even said it yourself. Deleting him no longer makes you long for him if he were to post something, or make your vibration dip if you see/read something that may ignite doubt, jealousy, etc. Take a deep breath, watch a funny movie, and tell yourself you're awesome.
Tomorrow is a new day (:
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You have everything you need, if you just believe" - Believe, Josh Groban
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