Him being a narcissist is your creation, so yes, you can change that. But maybe you should also ask the question why you would even want a narcissist? And why you attracted such a person in the first place?

Well, I have chased different guys for over a year now and I personally am done with it. I know what I have to do to attract them back in theory, but I am not advanced enough to actually apply it fully. Just because I miscreated doesn't mean I have to fix it. I can start anew. I can put myself on that pedestal and just focus on love and it will come faster than you think. I just ran after all that guys, because I didn't see an alternative. But a new guy did always show up, every single time. I personally won't longer cling to anybody. I am worth to have the relationship I deserve and I know that I can create it and if I created something I don't like, I can try to fix it for a while, if I think it's worth, but I personally am done with this. No more running after anyone. I am too good for that. I can have the love I want. You can also manifest a partner who blows your mind and you have no idea how incredible that relationship can be. Someone could show up tomorrow, if you would open up for love. What you do is your decision of course, but I also was with a narcissist once and I also tried to use LoA to get him back. I am so glad that it didn't happen, really. What I realised lately is that it is really true, you don't want the person, you want the feeling. But you think you need the person to have the feeling..not true. You can feel it now.

This thread is the most positive thread I've read on here in a loooooooooong time.

Sanshi wrote:

I am so glad that it didn't happen, really. What I realised lately is that it is really true, you don't want the person, you want the feeling. But you think you need the person to have the feeling..not true. You can feel it now.

MiracleMaker wrote:

Truth is looking deeper, there is a fear that only this person will be able to give me this feeling and if it is not from him it would not be enough.

At first, I was gonna tell you something similar but people usually blow up when I mention stuff like that so I chickened out lol. But it looks like you're much more aware of yourself which is a great thing.




 

One of my ex boyfriends was/is a narcissist too.  Although I loved him dearly and i felt horrible when it ended,  I just wouldn't try to attract him back. I was in such a horrible place when I attracted him as I"m sure that it's like that for many that date narcisisists which is why they attract such evil people.  It would require so much re-programming that i'd rather start a new. I think the best way to use LOA with narcissists it using it to deal with the pain and getting healthy.