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My bf and I broke up last december he said he is not ready for a serious relationship. I did visualization on getting back my bf constanly for 21 days and I got discouraged because I didnt see any result. I desperately need him. And I had a chat with one of his friends and i gotnupset and told him how upset I was. He said that dont think much he is not coming back. I was really sad. Yestersay I saw him and he clearly saw me too. We just passed each other so I expected that he would talk to me even through the phone yesterday. But he didnt. Do you think that he still has feelings for me? Im really upset. What shall I do?? Please help me.
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You are not in a position to attract him right now....read what u wrote "desperately need him" This feeling of desperation and neediness will attract more of these....please read the stories in this forum and u will realize what is lacking. You can certainly attract him back but you need to work on yourself right now.Once you are in a better place mentally you can attract anyone including him. Right now, if he's ignoring you, respect his feelings, by talking to his friends and discussing your feelings with them, you are actually pushing him away. If u meet his friends say that u are happy for him and respect his decision. Once he comes to know that you are OK NOT HAVING HIM, he will look at you differently. Right now. Give yourself some space. Breathe and enjoy this break to do things for yourself. It will yeild wonderful results. Read the success stories.Β
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tessy wrote:
You are not in a position to attract him right now....read what u wrote "desperately need him" This feeling of desperation and neediness will attract more of these....please read the stories in this forum and u will realize what is lacking. You can certainly attract him back but you need to work on yourself right now.Once you are in a better place mentally you can attract anyone including him. Right now, if he's ignoring you, respect his feelings, by talking to his friends and discussing your feelings with them, you are actually pushing him away. If u meet his friends say that u are happy for him and respect his decision. Once he comes to know that you are OK NOT HAVING HIM, he will look at you differently. Right now. Give yourself some space. Breathe and enjoy this break to do things for yourself. It will yeild wonderful results. Read the success stories.Β
Β Thank you for your nice advice. What should I do when I see him on street because we are from the same town ?? Plus is it okay to be friends with his friends?? I mean I have a really nice friend and he is a friend of my boyfriend. So is it okay to chat with him and have a regular friendship with him?? Will it affect my manifestation process??
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If you see him in the streets, smile at him if you find him looking at you. Big Deal. Also talk to him if there is a chance. Having a friendship with anyone is OK, it has nothing to do with your manifestation. Construct your life in a way which makes you happy not because your goal is to attract your ex. Its beacause YOU want to be happy.