Avaelle wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

Forget about social media and work on you.

Yeah you're right.
I'm just trying to get what the sister said out of my head. You know when you do something embarassing and it plays in your head? It's not embarassing, but it's kind of like that feeling. I still can't believe she said that to me. And I spent all of, the rest of my christmas money on all of that stuff too.

I dunno. After this, I have to bring my vibration way up, and increase my faith a lot more. This whole situation just hurts so much, and I can't imagine her ever coming back to me. - How woud the sister know about the stuff unless my girl showed her? - So obviously my girl was creeped out too :/

Eh. 

I need somthing to increase my faith by a **** TON after this event.

Why is it so hard to believe when you were predicting that it would?
I don't know how the situation played out between the two, so why even think on it?  If I were going to, why pick out the most negative thing that comes to mind?

It doesn't matter anyway. The magnitude of the manifestation and your reaction proves that you aren't read for this.  You should look into why your entire world is crashing over these people and also review your understanding of LOA.  Why be embarrassed over something you attracted?

I dunno. I mean, most of me was in a high vibration and I was actually excited about her recieving it. But maybe it's the delay. Maybe my negative thoughts from before are manifesting. I'm trying hard to remain positive, you know.

YesIWILL wrote:

Every time I try to let go and give up on her, I see huge signs which pull me back in, telling me not to give up. But you're right!! I do need to focus on myself. I don't think I truely understand how to. i'd appreciate some help, if that's alright

I can do this! It'll take time, but I know I can! The Universe wants me to have my desires, too

Just a couple of days ago, your thoughts were: "This isn't a good idea, I know I shouldn't be doing this. I'm scared of what will happen. I will offend her. She will be angry. But,  I hope we go back to how we were" Those aren't high vibrations at all nor is it having faith and behaving as if.   You need to go to the source of why you felt that way, the source being within you.  What are your fears? What is it about you that you feel people wouldn't accept?  You need to figure out what it is that you don't love about yourself, work on that and then and only then worry about being loved by others

YesIWILL wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

Every time I try to let go and give up on her, I see huge signs which pull me back in, telling me not to give up. But you're right!! I do need to focus on myself. I don't think I truely understand how to. i'd appreciate some help, if that's alright

I can do this! It'll take time, but I know I can! The Universe wants me to have my desires, too

Just a couple of days ago, your thoughts were: "This isn't a good idea, I know I shouldn't be doing this. I'm scared of what will happen. I will offend her. She will be angry. But,  I hope we go back to how we were" Those aren't high vibrations at all nor is it having faith and behaving as if.   You need to go to the source of why you felt that way, the source being within you.  What are your fears? What is it about you that you feel people wouldn't accept?  You need to figure out what it is that you don't love about yourself, work on that and then and only then worry about being loved by others

I know. I was a little nervous. But what shows on the forum can't exactly show how I'm feeling 100%, as it would in-person. For the most part I was excited. But I was a little nervous I'm sure, too. Of course I was. But mostly I was excited.

But I love who I am. I really do. I don't know why I put so much emphasis on her for my happiness. I don't know what fears I have. I don't even know how to work on myself. I already love who I am. I don't know how to pull that reliance off of her and back onto myself. 

Thank you so much, btw. I really appreciate you tryinig to help. I know you're taking your time our of your day to reply

You're welcome.
 

YesIWILL wrote:

is it bad that she isn't deleting me (not the sister, but I guess the sister too [the sister from snapchat and facebook]) off of facebook when she deleted and blocked me on everything else? It's like she's trying to keep tabs on me. I want to know because it's giving me hope and stuff Like, why would she do that?! Haha

Try not thinking about it too much man, you might end up disappointed, when one day you look and see yourself deleted

Just  be thankful that you're still there and don't think about it

Read back on those comments people have wrote to you and think about what we talked about on the phone. See what I keep saying to you, you haven't broken this vicious cycle you're in. If I can see it and everyone else can see it, you need to open up your mind and think deeply about everything. About valuing yourself and stop worrying so much. This was never about her, this is all about YOUR mindset. Remember? you're going to be perfectly fine, I promise you. Right now we're gonna take baby steps to get you out of this 'scared''negative''depressing'' mindset. 

And to the person that told him to seek professional help, I don't think this was the right time to just put that out there... think you need to think about how to approach him and anyone in the future better. It's cool to suggest but maybe this wasn't the right moment. Maybe it would have been better when he had calm down. Thankyou very much.