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I'm debating with myself about what to do here. My guy and I are in different countries, when we first met and got to know each other, the emails were maybe every 1-2 weeks. Then they ramped up, he'd email several times a week and replied to my emails within a day or two. I know he's been very busy over the past several months, and our email frequency has dwindled back to every 2 weeks or so. That makes me a little sad and frustrated because things had been progressing so nicely before then.
I've been doing RS and visualizing and it really helps to raise my energy. And I get the feeling he's responding to it even though he hasn't emailed lately.
Anyway, I haven't heard from him in more than 2 weeks now and I don't want to just sit around waiting for him to email me. I have no reason to believe there's anything wrong between us although of course I don't know for sure. I don't want to lower my vibration by worrying that he's lost interest. So I don't *think* it would be out of line for me to email him just to say hi etc like usual?
I feel like I can't be objective sometimes so an impartial view would be helpful. Thank you!
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Thank you so much, Blue! Yeah, I was thinking it would seem odd if I *didn't* say hi, actually. And I don't want to get into that mindset of "Why isn't he emailing me???"
Much appreciated!
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jellyb wrote:
I'm debating with myself about what to do here. My guy and I are in different countries, when we first met and got to know each other, the emails were maybe every 1-2 weeks. Then they ramped up, he'd email several times a week and replied to my emails within a day or two. I know he's been very busy over the past several months, and our email frequency has dwindled back to every 2 weeks or so. That makes me a little sad and frustrated because things had been progressing so nicely before then.
I've been doing RS and visualizing and it really helps to raise my energy. And I get the feeling he's responding to it even though he hasn't emailed lately.
Anyway, I haven't heard from him in more than 2 weeks now and I don't want to just sit around waiting for him to email me. I have no reason to believe there's anything wrong between us although of course I don't know for sure. I don't want to lower my vibration by worrying that he's lost interest. So I don't *think* it would be out of line for me to email him just to say hi etc like usual?
I feel like I can't be objective sometimes so an impartial view would be helpful. Thank you!
Me, kind of going through the same situation. I have been trying to keep all the positive energy, increase the vibes and leave the rest up to the universe. Yes, Universe does fix things in its own way. It's kind of easy to say to forget things, but the thoughts just keep coming back if not banging on. And I am sure, you might have gone though this at times.
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It's definitely difficult sometimes. I try to remember that the fear and worry are okay and natural but not to give into them. That seems to help me and it helps to give those worries less of a punch, if that makes sense.